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11 used and new from $7.00, Paperback, Marriage Transformation, LLC, ISBN: 0972689397
Susanne Alexander
A Perfectly Funny Marriage: A Humorous View of Creating a Successful Marriage Lighten up the process of creating a successful marriage by looking at the humorous side with this semi-educational cartoon book! With cartoonists such as Randy Glasbergen and Dave “Speed Bump” Coverly, Alexander illustrates the key steps to marital success. On each page, practical marriage guidance is illustrated with cartoons. Great for individuals, couples, workshops, groups, gifts, and more. "Every couple, from their first date to their 50th wedding anniversary, should have it close at hand." - Scott Haltzman
17 used and new from $8.73, Paperback, Marriage Transformation, LLC, ISBN: 0972689362
Susanne Alexander
Can We Dance?: Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship (Both Eyes Open Relationship Books) A transformation in the way singles approach preparing for, seeking, and being in a relationship. No more guessing about a partner's character! Includes activities, worksheets, stories, cartoons, and more to empower singles to make significant new choices in creating a, realistic, lasting, friendship-based relationship.
20 used and new from $3.94, Paperback, Marriage Transformation, LLC, ISBN: 0972689354
Susanne Alexander
Pure Gold: Encouraging Character Qualities in Marriage Couples want a happy, lasting marriage filled with qualities such as trustworthiness, loyalty, courage and generosity. Research shows that preventing destructive character attacks and understanding and practicing positive character qualities is vital for marital success. Filled with ideas, activities and quotations to help couples create and strengthen a loving marriage. Also a helpful for professionals working with couples or for use in workshops. Includes worksheets.
1 new from $1.50, Pamphlet, Marriage Transformation LLC, ISBN: 0972689346
Susanne Alexander
What's Character Got to Do With It? Enhancing Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage Discover how transformed your sexual relationship can be when you and your spouse delve into the richness of character qualities. Patience, enthusiasm, generosity, trustworthiness, and many other vital character qualities affect your life and marriage in many ways, including how you make love. This booklet invites you and your spouse to bring these fulfilling qualities with you into your bedroom.
54 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Company, ISBN: 0802839762
Katherine Anderson, Don Browning, Brian Boyer
Marriage, Just a Piece of Paper? <>A companion book to the national PBS documentary on what happens when marriage disappears. Intimate, revealing interviews with 60 people-- experts, mothers, fathers and children talking about the complexities of their loves, hopes, disappointments and heartbreaks. This book goes beyond conservative and liberal battles over the state of the American family to address the difficult question of marriage itself. Has the "M" word become a subject unfit for polite company, neglected… perhaps shunned… in the halls of government, family-related professions and even houses of worship?
See videos in video section below.
97 used and new from $3.06, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310247322
David Arp, Claudia Arp, Curt Brown, Natelle Brown
10 Great Dates Before You Say "I Do" A unique approach featuring fun-filled dates to help seriously dating and engaged couples strengthen their relationship. Couples will soon discover whether or not to go to the next level of commitment, and will spend quality time together now while preparing for a great marriage in the future.
54 used and new from $1.24, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310256569
David Arp, Claudia Arp
10 Great Dates for Empty Nesters It’s just the two of you again and it’s time to renew your relationship. You can reconnect and reclaim that same spark, excitement, and creativity you experienced before you had kids through ten innovative, fun dates. “This book will fill your empty nest with fun, friendship, and romance. It is refreshing to read a book about marriage written by people who don’t just believe in marriage but actually understand how it works.” - John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
159 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310210917
David Arp, Claudia Arp
10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage Reclaim that old spark, connection, and creativity in your marriage through ten memory-making dates based on marriage-enriching themes. This proven approach to relationship growth is low-key, purposeful, effective, easy, and fun.
“You will love growing together while going out together.”-John Gray
81 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Thomas Nelson Inc, ISBN: 0840734352
David Arp, Claudia Arp
52 Dates for You and Your Mate For those who want to make their marriage come alive with fun, laughter, and good times together. You can enrich your marriage and create years of special memories with the fun and creative dates inside.
36 used and new from $0.85, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787952222
Claudia Arp, Scott Stanley, Howard Markman, Susan Blumberg
Fighting for Your Empty Nest Marriage This book offer clear cut instructions for dealing with one of the most difficult transitions in any marriage:when the children leave home. Based on the PREP program and the Arp's book, The Second Half of Marriage, and their national surveys of long term marriages,this guide helps you make this transition and preserve commitment, love, partnership, sensuality, and fun within the marriage.
76 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Howard Books, ISBN: 1582294003
David Arp, Claudia Arp
No Time for Sex: Finding the Time You Need for Getting the Love You Want Help for energy-zapped, sleep-challenged, and sex-deprived couples longing to put interest back in intimacy, readiness back in romance, and sizzle back in marital sex. “The Arps offer a down-to-earth, fail-proof toolkit for rediscovering intimacy and passion both in and out of your bedroom.”-Michele Weiner-Davis
74 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310219353
David Arp, Claudia Arp
Second Half of Marriage, The The Arps, based on their survey of hundreds of couples, reveal 8 challenges that all long-term marriages face and give practical strategies to meet each. A timely book as baby boomers turn 50!
79 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310227887
David and Claudia Arp
Suddenly They're 13 An updated and expanded edition of their international best-seller, Almost 13 (over 125,000 in print). The Arp's share four tools to help you prepare for and launch your "prickly teen" into adulthood.
40 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Westminster John Knox Press, ISBN: 0664257267
Sandra Gray Bender
Re-creating Married with the Same Old Spouse-Couples Guide Provides examples from author's and clients' marriages about how couples live together in spite of their different personalities. Exercises and discussions teach listening, appreciation, requests, promises, and communicating feelings.
19 used and new from $0.77, Paperback, Monarch Books, ISBN: 0825460875
Harry Benson
Mentoring Marriages: Use Your Experience of the Ups and Downs of Married Life to Support Other Couples This book is for any couple that wants to make a difference. Mentoring made easy! Harry explains how to mentor young couples using an inventory and how to spot good and bad relationship patterns. Includes summaries of the latest research on marriage, marriage education and mentoring. Harry is a leading pioneer of relationship education and mentoring, influenced by Marriage Savers and PREP.
55 used and new from $13.45, Paperback, Trafford Publishing, ISBN: 1412033209
Anne Bercht
My Husband's Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me An emotional and triumphant journey written through the perspectives of the people involved -- the betrayed wife, the misunderstood husband, the wounded children, the "other woman" or the friends or family members who desperately want to offer comfort. There is much to be learned from someone who writes as though she is speaking to you in person and who offers all kinds of ideas for healing from infidelity - or for avoiding it in the first place.
64 used and new from $8.46, Paperback, Da Capo Press, ISBN: 1569244758
Jeffrey Bernstein
Why Can't You Read My Mind? Overcoming the 9 Toxic Thought Patterns that Get in the Way of a Loving Relationship Learn how to rid yourself of toxic thought patterns - such as jumping to conclusions, labeling one another and playing the "blame game" - that destroy relationships.
27 used and new from $0.99, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787943622
Susan Blumberg, Janice Levine
Fighting For Your Jewish Marriage Based on the acclaimed PREP approach to marriage, this book is for Jewish and interfaith couples.
"This important book combines modern social scientific research and traditional Jewish wisdom to help couples resurrect the buried promises of friendship, responsibility and the joy of love. It is rooted in a deep conviction that it is never too late to build again, to hope again, to love again." Rabbi Harold M. Schulweis, author of "For Those Who Can't Believe"
11 used from $0.50, Paperback, Authorhouse, ISBN: 0759665923
Sam Bradley
Marriage Makeover: A Woman's Guide to a Better Marriage This guide for the married woman on how to make marriage successful and fulfilling is not about how to change a husband; it's about how a woman can assess where she is and take responsiblity for changing her "color" through step-by-step action plans.
"I highly recommend this book. Buy it for all the women in your life." - Diane Sollee
20 used and new from $21.99, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415871883
Robert Schwarz, Elaine Braff
We're No Fun Anymore: Helping Couples Cultivate Joyful Marriages Through the Power of Play

Married couples, juggling the demands of life, often fail to nurture the fun, playful and sexy side of their relationship. Over time, this neglect creates an increasing spiral of dysfunction. Learn practical (and fun) steps to get your marriage out of the rut, recapture the pleasure romance, and revive the playful side of sex that makes it the enjoyable experience it’s supposed to be. Clinicians, get the bonus of increasing not only the success, but also the fun you have in your clinical work.

27 used and new from $2.61, Paperback, Liturgical Press, ISBN: 081463012X
Bridget Brennan, Jerome L. Shen
Claiming Our Deepest Desires: The Power of an Intimate Marriage This book integrates the spirituality of marriage with practical experience for couples in healthy, committed marriages. An in-depth book for the intelligent reader.

"Desires is applied theology and spirituality at its best." Michael Lawler

"...how to enjoy marriage as a special spiritual state" Midwest Book Review

63 used and new from $7.27, Paperback, Inspire Book, ISBN: 1587830345
Laura Brotherson
And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment As three books in one, this "family values" marriage, sex and parenting book is the ultimate how-to handbook, packed with hope and help for creating a mutually fulfilling intimate relationship. Comprehensive and frank, yet still respectfully reverent -- provides strategies for intimacy struggles that plague so many marriages plus principles and practices to help parents teach their children about sex and better prepare them for lasting fulfillment in marriage. Also available as hardcover or CD audiobook.
55 used and new from $7.00, Paperback, CharLer Publishing, ISBN: 0977456803
Robert Buchicchio
Taking Space: How to Use Separation to Explore the Future of Your Relationship Provides struggling couples with a step-by-step process for managing separations as a way to get space, reduce conflict, and focus on self-growth. This method can even work with a non-cooperating partner. Teaches partners how to design a separation plan by pinpointing 10 essential tasks necessary to maneuver through this highly stressful experience. Skills, techniques, and coping strategies to overcome feelings of helplessness and help identify choices. The goal is to help couples use separation to learn, develop, and then recommit to their relationship with adjusted expectations, perspectives, skills, and a stronger sense of themselves.
12 used and new from $8.38, Paperback, Tate Publishing & Enterprises, ISBN: 1598864858
John Buri
How to Love Your Wife “How To Love Your Wife is filled with insights for young men looking for their soul mate and young husbands trying to figure out how to be good to the woman they love.  In this day when young men and women desperately want to avoid divorce and find lasting love, John Buri lays down a roadmap.”    - Maggie Gallagher
46 used and new from $5.75, Paperback, Northfield Publishing, ISBN: 0802442110
Dave Carder
33 used and new from $2.49, Paperback, Moody Publishers, ISBN: 0802471412
David Carder
Torn Asunder Workbook: Recovering from Extramarital Affairs
This workbook is an excellent tool for couples to work through and apply the material presented in Torn Asunder. It is organized into daily twenty-minute exercises initiated by each spouse on alternating days. Because this tragic situation is not easily resolved, this workbook is a must to get couples on the road to healing and oneness.
129 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Moody Publishers, ISBN: 0802477488
Dave Carder, Duncan Jaenicke
Torn Asunder: Recovering From Extramarital Affairs
This book, with individual workbooks, will help couples stabilize their marriage after infidelity. The step-by-step guide walks the couple through the betrayal, helps them process the hurt and anger, identify contributing factors, start the forgiveness process, initiate trust building exercises, and through "The Final Project" answer remaining questions in a constructive and healing manner.
44 used and new from $9.58, Paperback, Impact Publishers, Inc., ISBN: 1886230463
Jon Carlson, Don Dinkmeyer Sr.
Time for a Better Marriage: Training in Marriage Enrichment (Rebuilding Books) This book is for couples who want to enrich their relationships, couples planning to marry and couples classes in churches, schools and community groups. Marriage and family therapists will find this a valuable resource as a supplement to couples counseling.
"...a wise and compassionate guide...for improving communication, resolving conflict and staying attuned to healthy marriage goals." - John Gray
67 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Pass It On Publications, ISBN: 0981474705
Mae and Erika Chambers
Can My Marriage be Saved?: True Stories of Saved Marriages The inspiring stories of more than twenty couples whose marriages were restored, even after being deemed hopeless by their friends, family, counselors – even pastors – offer hope for any troubled marriage. Each overcame devastating circumstances such as adultery, sexual addiction, clinical depression, bankruptcy, substance abuse, and the loss of their children.  Each story is connected to a ministry that helped them with contact information at the end of each story and a detailed marriagehelp resource guide.
142 used and new from $3.29, Hardcover, Northfield Publishing, ISBN: 1881273571
Gary Chapman, Jennifer Thomas
The Five Languages of Apology: How to Experience Healing in All Your Relationships How many ways are there to say 'I'm sorry?' It depends. Just as we have a different love languages, we also hear and express the words and gestures of apology in different languages. Chapman provides an easy to follow and quickly applicable communication tool to help couples and families heal. 
741 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Northfield Publishing, ISBN: 1881273156
Gary Chapman
The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages. Chapman identifies five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch and explains how you can discover your spouse's - and your own - love language and use that info to create lasting love. 
58 used and new from $6.25, Paperback, Moody Publishers, ISBN: 0802472974
Gary Chapman
The Marriage You've Always Wanted
Marriage is the answer to our deepest human need—companionship. With expert wisdom and practical common sense, Gary Chapman helps couples with such questions as: Why won’t my spouse change? How do I get him to listen? What if I’m the only one working at the marriage? Formerly titled Toward a Growing Marriage, the book covers topics like meaningful communication, expectations, and money management. Questions in each chapter encourage interaction. Order the companion The Marriage You've Always Wanted Bible Study for personal and group study. 
50 used and new from $7.13, Paperback, Moody Publishers, ISBN: 0802473008
Gary Chapman
The Marriage You've Always Wanted Bible Study
Do you have the marriage you want? What about the marriage God wants you to have? Marriage is meant to be the most intimate of human relationships, but for many couples this intimacy is only a dream.  The Marriage You've Always Wanted Bible Study will help you make that dream a reality. For personal and group study, to teach you to share your life more fully with God, and as your relationship with God grows and deepens, so will your relationship as a couple.
91 used and new from $2.77, Hardcover, Knopf, ISBN: 0307266893
Andrew Cherlin
The Marriage-Go-Round: The State of Marriage and the Family in America Today

Illuminates the intense and ever-increasing national debate: Americans marry more repeatedly and have more live-in partners; marriage and remarriage, frequent divorce, and short-term cohabiting relationships have resulted in a core upheaval in American family life; and American children have been left to cope with the frequent and disruptive comings and goings of parents. Americans have come to embrace two contradictory values: marriage and individualism. The former promotes a lasting relationship; the latter encourages one to move on.

38 used and new from $6.94, Paperback, Sellers Publishing, ISBN: 1416205594
Mark Chimsky-Lustig, John Gray, Harriet Lerner, Gay Henricks, Barbara De Angelis, Mike Robbins, Terri Orbuch, Kris Carlson, Joseph Bailey, Nicole Chaison, John Van Epp, Debra Galant, Nava Atlas, Judith Wallerstein, Sandra Blakeslee
Creating a Marriage You'll Love: Secrets for Building a Rich and Full Life Together What makes a marriage work and stand the test of time? 19 experts provide advice and wisdom in this lively, practical collection of essays – the perfect gift for wedding showers and anniversaries, as well as for all those who are looking for ways to make their marriages stronger. All royalties from the book will be donated to nonprofit organizations that help victims of domestic violence, with the goal of making every home a safe home.
71 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Guilford Press, ISBN: 1572302615
Andrew Christensen, Neil Jacobson
Reconcilable Differences This practical guide --based on decades of acclaimed marital research -- offersnew solutions for couples frustrated by continual attempts to make each other change. It turns out that couples who focus on acceptance,rather than directly on change, actually end upchanging more, to the benefit of their marriage.
32 used and new from $3.99, Hardcover, St. Martin's Press, ISBN: 031228974X
Joshua Coleman
Imperfect Harmony: How to Stay Married for the Sake of Your Children and Still Be Happy Coleman isn't afraid to tell the truth: not all marriages can be joyful at all times, but that isn't a cause for divorce, especially with children involved. Even if your marriage is never going to be the one you dreamed of, you can still live happily ever after. With practical advice and genuine empathy, Coleman encourages spouses to stick it out: their marriage may not change drastically for the better, he says – but then again, it just might.
71 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, St. Martin's Press, ISBN: 0312327943
Joshua Coleman
The Lazy Husband: How to Get Men to Do More Parenting and Housework Coleman develops type-specific plans for change. By following these proactive plans, you too can achieve a happy, well-balanced marriage. "Finally, a no-nonsense, no-nagging guide for catapulting the man in your life off the couch, out of his cave and beyond his defensiveness to become more of a team player and loving partner.
This is a marriage instructionmanual no woman should be without." - Michele Weiner-Davis
43 used and new from $3.99, Hardcover, William Morrow, ISBN: 0061148423
Joshua Coleman
When Parents Hurt: Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along

This unique book supports parents who are struggling with the heartache of having a teenager or an adult child who is troubled, angry, or distant. Such rifts can cause unspeakable sorrow and damage marriages. Through case examples and healing exercises, Coleman helps parents develop strategies for rebuilding the relationship or move toward acceptance of what can't be changed.

Time, Sex, and Money: The First Five Years of Marriage
Center for Marriage and Family, Creighton University
<>This national study provides a profile of couples married five years or less and reports on a wide range of behaviors, attitudes, experiences, as well as marital adjustment, religiosity, and problematic issues relevant to the early years of marriage. Data included are useful to both married couples and practitioners who work with them. 125 pages/$15, with multiple order discounts. Dec, 2000.Purchase from the Center for Marriage and Family. 402-280-2908 Web: http://www.creighton.edu/MarriageandFamily/
57 used and new from $0.71, Paperback, Ballantine Books, ISBN: 0449909611
Joel Crohn
Mixed Matches Mixed matches are more complicated relationships than those between people from similar backgrounds. Even when partners don't feel a strong identification with their racial, religious, or cultural groups, they discover that their loyalty to the past goes deeper than they realized. Crohn has learned in years of counseling couples in cross-cultural relationships that how partners negotiate their cultural and religious differences is as important as what the difference are.
18 used and new from $0.76, Paperback, IOD Press, ISBN: 0977344401
John Curtis
The Business of Love: 9 Best Practices for Improving the Bottom Line of Your Relationship John Curtis, a leading organizational development consultant and former marriage counselor applies proven business strategies to "divorce-proof" intimate relationships and even turnaround rocky relationships. Provides a step-by-step approach on how to apply business concepts to marriage, such as writing a marital vision statement or a detailed job description for the husband and wife, or how to set up a performance appraisals process and compensation system for a marriage.
54 used and new from $0.57, Hardcover, Simon & Schuster, ISBN: 0743266269
Michele Weiner Davis
The Sex-Starved Wife: What to Do When He's Lost Desire Weiner Davis explains that you are not alone, and it is not your fault: there is a whole host of reasons why your husband might be experiencing low desire. She's also convinced that understanding the cause of a problem won't make your sex life any juicier; doing something about it will. She gives you the tools you need to present the information in the book so that your husband will not become defensive. You'll learn methods for overcoming sexual dysfunctions such as performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, and effective ways for dealing with pornography or infidelity. The straightforward, psychobabble-free advice in this book will help you create the intimacy and connection for which you've been longing.
94 used and new from $0.30, Hardcover, Readers Digest, ISBN: 0762107251
Rita DeMaria, Sari Harrar
7 Stages of Marriage: Laughter, Intimacy and Passion Today, Tomorrow, Forever Identifies the 7 stages and gives ways to maintain the good (as in the first stage: passion) or getting through the not-so-good phases (as in the second stage when you wake up and realize that your marriage is not all magic all the time) with helpful information on each page illustrated by the stories of real-life couples. Useful for  couples who are getting married, are married, or are considering divorce. - Scott Haltzman
37 used and new from $1.23, Hardcover, Bethany House, ISBN: 076420758X
Ron Deal, David Olson
Remarriage Checkup, The: Tools to Help Your Marriage Last a Lifetime Ron Deal, the leading Christian remarriage authority, and David Olson, a seasoned marriage and family expert, give couples hope that they can have strong, healthy marriages. Their advice grows out of Olson's National Survey of Couples Creating Stepfamilies, the largest study of its kind ever conducted. As couples work through the chapters in conjunction with an online Couple Checkup, they'll discover ways to improve all aspects of their marriage and build on its strengths.
26 used and new from $4.75, Hardcover, Routledge, ISBN: 158391076X
Rita Demaria
Building Intimate Relationships: Bridging Treatment, Education, and Enrichment Through the PAIRS Program The PAIRS course acts as a kind of bridge between marriage education and therapy, working both with couples in healthy relationships hoping to improve intimacy, and with distressed couples trying to save their marriages. This edited work includes contributions from the creator of the PAIRS program and the most experienced PAIRS leaders who  describe the elements of the course and discusses the application of the theories and techniques taught in the program. Chapters include discussions on intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, "emotional literacy", sensuality and sexuality, spirituality, and gender issues.
51 used and new from $18.45, Paperback, Outreach Publishing, ISBN: 0978715373
Jennifer Dion
Fireproof Your Marriage Couple's Kit Fireproof Your Marriage challenges you to love for a lifetime! Founded on Biblical principles, this six-session in-home study includes a six-session DVD and two Participant's guides. The study integrates movie clips, key Scriptures, with thought-provoking questions and devotionals. Six sessions includes lessons on appreciating the God-designed differences between men and women, marriage as a lifelong covenant, conquering temptations that can destroy a marriage, & offering and receiving forgiveness.
71 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Sorin Books, ISBN: 189373207X
William J. Doherty
Take Back Your Kids: Confident Parenting in Turbulent Times Parents must take back their children from the consumer culture of childhood in which children are customers of parental services, parents are insecure providers of endless opportunities and commodities to entitled children, and families lose their time together and rituals in over-scheduled hyperactivity. Called a "manifesto for a budding parents movement" by the Chicago Times endorsed by both Dr Laura and Mary Pipher. Recommended it to listeners last week!
75 used and new from $4.83, Paperback, The Guilford Press, ISBN: 1572308796
William Doherty
Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World That Pulls Us Apart Identify & break free of attitudes and assumptions that can chip away at even the happiest marriage - treating marriage like a consumer purchase, confusing desires with needs, becoming overtime parents and part-time spouses, and giving in to unintentional sabotage from family, friends, or helping professionals. Learn how to stay alert to marital drift, create energizing marriage rituals, and how to restore a relationship worth saving, even when it seems too late.
27 used and new from $10.37, Paperback, BookSurge Publishing, ISBN: 1419663380
William Doherty, Elizabeth Doherty Thomas
Take Back Your Wedding: Managing the People Stress of Wedding Planning Weddings bring out the best and worst in us because they combine romance, money, loyalties, jealousies, new in-law relations, and endless practical decisions – all played out in front of your community of family and friends! No one gets through this without times of frustration, confusion, and sometimes anger. This book is an essential guide to handing the stress, avoiding the common pitfalls, having a great wedding, and launching a successful marriage.
54 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Perseus Books, ISBN: 0201694662
William Doherty
The Intentional Family: How to Build Family Ties in Our Modern World Cultivate marriage and family life through rituals of connection, celebration,and community. Learn how to create everyday rituals and refurbish the ones you already have. A home improvement manual for the modern family.
148 used and new from $6.40, Paperback, Penguin (Non-Classics), ISBN: 0143113100
Norman Doidge
The Brain That Changes Itself: Stories of Personal Triumph from the Frontiers of Brain Science (James H. Silberman Books) An astonishing new science called neuroplasticity is overthrowing the centuries-old notion that the human brain is immutable. Meet the brilliant scientists championing neuroplasticity and the people whose lives they've transformed. From stroke patients learning to speak again to the remarkable case of a woman born with half a brain that rewired itself to work as a whole, I guarantee this book will permanently alter the way you look at brains, human nature, and human potential. - diane sollee
30 used and new from $29.97, Hardcover, University of California Press, ISBN: 0520241134
Kathryn Edin, Maria Kefalas
"This book provides the most insightful and comprehensive account I have read of the reasons why many low-income women postpone marriage but don't postpone childbearing. . . excellent job of illuminating the changing meaning of marriage in America."- Andrew Cherlin
35 used and new from $13.52, Paperback, Impact Pub, ISBN: 1886230625
Elizabeth Einstein, Linda Albert
Strengthening Your Stepfamily "This is the perfect resource for all who are considering stepfamily living or have already committed. It is not just a book about stepfamilies, but instead a detailed manual on how to create a strong stepfamily unit. The ideas and strategies are clear and compelling. Be prepared to enjoy coming home!" - Jon Carlson
48 used and new from $6.43, Hardcover, McGraw-Hill, ISBN: 0071472657
John VanEpp
How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk It's happened to everyone: you meet someone, fall madly in love and all good judgment and perspective go out the window until slowly you realize this person isn't who you thought he/she was. Follow this proven program and 5 key areas for picking a partner and break the destructive relationship & dating patterns that lead to failure.
57 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787983209
Don Ferguson
Reptiles in Love: Ending Destructive Fights and Evolving Toward More Loving Relationships When stressed or angry brains move into the fight-or-flight response mode, important abilities such as creativity, planning, organizational skills and empathy, are disabled. "Reptiles" teaches couples to slow down, lower their heart rates and increase higher level neo-cortex reasoning to allow them to heal and develop their intimacy.
48 used and new from $5.00, Hardcover, Henry Holt and Co., ISBN: 0805069135
Helen Fisher
Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love A groundbreaking exploration of our most complex and mysterious emotion. Elation, mood swings, sleeplessness, and obsession -- these are the tell-tale signs of someone in the throes of romantic passion. In this revealing new book, renowned anthropologist Fisher explains why this experience -- which cuts across time, geography, and gender -- is a force as powerful as the need for food or sleep.
49 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787945676
Blaine Fowers
Beyond The Myth of Marital Happiness This inspiring book shows how our unrealistic expectations have made marriage more fragilethan ever before and offers a practical new vision of marriage as a wonderful opportunity tolearn and practice virtues in the shared pursuit of a couple's deepest ideals.The book is filled with examples of how tocultivate friendship, loyalty, generosity, and other virtues.
43 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Regnery Publishing, ISBN: 0895264641
Maggie Gallagher
"Maggie Gallagher has written a most extraordinary book, the axiom of whichis that marriage should, really, endure. In thinking this, and writing about it so cogently,she affronts (almost literally) one half of modern Americans. She does with without any trace ofcondescension or smugness, giving us instead the illumination that comes fromhard thought, eloquently distilled." William F. Buckley, Jr.
41 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, WaterBrook Press, ISBN: 1578568390
Tim Gardner
The Naked Soul: God's Amazing, Everyday Solution to Loneliness When physical pleasure is the highest goal, sex will fail to fully satisfy. Discover how to transform sexual intimacy from a disappointing battlefield to a fulfilling spiritual and emotional union. Experience a beautiful, life of intimacy that blesses them far beyond the bedroom walls. “Read this book and your marriage will never be the same,” Dr. Les Parrott

95 used and new from $3.94, Paperback, Three Rivers Press, ISBN: 0609809881
Haim Ginott
Between Parent and Child: The Bestselling Classic That Revolutionized Parent-Child Communication The classic that helped millions of parents raise emotionally intelligent children is now revised and updated. Ginott’s warm and practical narrative can help any person who works with or cares about children.
"The most important book ever written on parenting and the emotional world of children." - John Gottman
"I used it to raise my sons and then gave them my heavily underlined copy when they had their kids. It wonderfully stands the test of time." - Diane Sollee
762 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Little, Brown and Company, ISBN: 0316172324
Malcolm Gladwell
Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking "Some years ago, a young couple came to the University of Washington to visit the laboratory of a psychologist named John Gottman..." How to understand our ability to make snap judgments, and how to educate and hone this ability to make it work for us.
588 used and new from $3.99, Hardcover, Little, Brown and Company, ISBN: 0316017922
Malcolm Gladwell
Outliers: The Story of Success What makes high-achievers different? And how can we apply this to become ever more succdessful as marriage educators? We must pay closer attention to our couples' culture, their family, their generation, and their Power Distance Index. This landmark work will simultaneously delight and illuminate.
39 used and new from $5.34, Hardcover, Free Press, ISBN: 074322549X
Shirley Glass
Not "Just Friends": Protect Your Relationship from Infidelity and Heal the Trauma of Betrayal Good people in good marriages are having affairs at work and on the Internet. Learn how to clarify commitment, validate rational jealousy, and use "wall and windows" safeguards to prevent platonic friendships from crossing the line into an extramarital relationship. Click to see what the experts are saying about Not Just Friends.
68 used and new from $1.90, Paperback, Harper Perennial, ISBN: 006095633X
William Glasser, Carleen Glasser
Getting Together and Staying Together: Solving the Mystery of Marriage As they examine the questions of why some marriages work and others fail, the Glassers advise readers on how to create loving and happy relationships by applying Dr. Glasser's trademark "choice theory." The result is a wealth of new information about who would make a compatible partner and how to improve any relationship.
50 used and new from $7.80, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0470547618
H. Wallace Goddard, James P. Marshall
The Marriage Garden Down-to-earth advice for any couple who wants to strengthen their marriage and make it last a lifetime using this six-step program to commit, grow, nurture, understand, solve, and serve. Using a bountiful garden as a metaphor for a healthy marriage, the book encourages couples to invest time in growing their relationship, shine the light of encouragement on each other, deal with "bugs" and "thorns," and share time and resources to make the whole world blossom.
31 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Science & Behavior Books, ISBN: 0831400862
Lori Gordon
If You Really Loved Me This book tackles the hidden expectations and assumptions that we bring into intimate relationship, which act like landmines and explode when touched. Effective, simple, non-blaming skills to remedy this situation is provided. Excellent for therapists and couples interested in improving those "stuck" relationships.
"This book is full of very practical relationship gems for couples" - Harville Hendrix.
"A treasure trove of liberating wisom that will improve the lives of many."
- Harold Kushner
44 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Dell, ISBN: 0440502748
Lori Gordon
Love Knots How to Untangle Those Everyday Frustrations and Arguments That Keep You from Being With the One You Love with chapters like: Read My Mind!, See No Evil, Who Cares?, Just Skip It, I Knew It, Ass-u-me.
60 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Fireside, ISBN: 0671795961
Lori Gordon, Jon Frandsen
Passage to Intimacy : Key Concepts and Skills from the Pairs Program Which Has Helped Thousands of Couples Rekindle Their Love This book teaches the uniquely effective concepts and skills from the dynamic internationally acclaimed PAIRS Program.
"Gordon is the MASTER. She takes you by the hand and guidesyou step-by-step to build the relationship of your dreams – one thatwill stand the test of time." - Diane Sollee
"An admirable achievement. A major contribution to the relationship of any couple who will study its ideas and apply them." - Nathaniel Branden

92 used and new from $1.25, Hardcover, Dutton Adult, ISBN: 0525951512
Lori Gottlieb
Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough You have a fulfilling job, great friends, no shortage of dates. So what if you haven't found The One just yet. Surely he'll come along. But what if he doesn't? Or even worse, what if he already has, but you just didn't realize it? Suddenly finding herself forty, single, and having had a baby using a sperm donor, Lori Gottlieb said the unthinkable in her March 2008 article in The Atlantic: Maybe she and single women everywhere, needed to stop chasing the elusive Prince Charming and instead go for Mr. Good Enough. Looking at her friends' happy marriages to good enough guys who happen to be excellent husbands and fathers, Gottlieb declared it time to reevaluate what we really need in a partner. That's where Marry Him comes in. By looking at everything from culture to biology, Gottlieb frankly explores the dilemma that so many women today seem to face--and shares the wise guidance she gets from researchers, matchmakers, economists, couples therapists, divorce lawyers, etc--as well as single and married men and women, ranging in age from their twenties to their sixties.  It's a provocative wake- up call about getting real about Mr. Right.
96 used and new from $5.09, Paperback, Three Rivers Press, ISBN: 0609809539
John Gottman
The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships Revolutionary program for repairing troubled relationships - with spouses, lovers, children, family members, friends, boss or colleagues. Provides tools including the empowering concept of the "emotional bid," the fundamental unit of emotional connection. All good relationships are built through a process of making and receiving successful bids that range from such subtle gestures as a quick question, a look, or a comment to the most probing and intimate ways we communicate.
236 used and new from $2.84, Paperback, Three Rivers Press, ISBN: 0609805797
John Gottman, Nan Silver
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert Based on 30 years of longitudinal research on the "masters and disasters" of marriage, Gottman provides powerful evidence - and concrete guidelines - for making marriage work. Turns out, "emotionally intelligent" marriages have friendship at their center.
1 new from $34.55, Paperback, Pocket Books, ISBN: 0671899325
John Gottman
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail An upbeat, easy-to-follow manual based on research into the dynamics of married couples. Gottman describes his studies as being akin to a CAT scan of a living relationship and asserts that he's been able to predict the future of marriages with an accuracy rate of over 90 percent. He concludes that a lasting relationship results from a couple's ability to resolve conflicts and he offers a four-step program for breaking through negativity and allowing one's natural communication and problem-solving abilities to flourish.
342 used and new from $2.53, Paperback, Harper Paperbacks, ISBN: 0060574216
John Gray
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex This all time best seller among relationship books, identifies the differences between men and women – men are from Mars, and women are from Venus, after all – and offers a series of simple solutions that help couples acknowledge and accept their differences and develop happier relationships. 
90 used and new from $0.23, Hardcover, Harper, ISBN: 0060085657
John Gray
Truly Mars and Venus: The Illustrated Essential Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Think one-or two-paragraph soundbites and bullet-pointed checklists from Gray's mega-selling relationship bible focused on the perennial miscommunication problems that can sink a marriage - a portable, easy-to-use set of tips to keep your marriage ship shape.
79 used and new from $8.30, Hardcover, Mind Publishing, ISBN: 0978279735
John Gray, Ph.D
Venus on Fire, Mars on Ice: Hormonal Balance - The Key to Life, Love and Energy How to harness the connection between stress, blood sugar, body fat, and behavior to create lifelong passion and better health keeping in mind that the differences between the sexes, and how they relate to one another, are biochemically based and can be explained–and managed–by our hormones.Includes small, easy steps for super-stimulating the hormones necessary to nourish a vibrant life. He explores how communication, romance, ''a superfood diet, super exercise, and super sleep,'' can be incorporated into any lifestyle, to create a super marriage.
105 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Harper, ISBN: 0061242969
John Gray
Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving Relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently with Stress

Once upon a time, Martians and Venusians functioned in separate worlds. But in today's hectic and career-oriented environment, relationships have become a lot more complicated, and men and women are experiencing unprecedented levels of stress. To add to the tension, most men and women are unaware that they are hardwired to react differently to the stress. We're not on the same page, anger and resentment set in, and we collide. Gray, backed up by groundbreaking research, arms us with the information we need to live harmoniously ever after.

77 used and new from $3.99, Paperback, Sentinel Trade, ISBN: 1595230459
Miriam Grossman
Unprotected Our campuses are steeped in political correctness—with dire consequences. Psychiatrist Miriam Grossman has treated more than 2,000 students at one of America’s most prestigious universities, and she’s seen how the anything-goes, women-are-just-like-men, “safer-sex” agenda is actually making our sons and daughters sick. What campus counselors and health providers must do, she argues, is tell uncomfortable, politically incorrect truths. Instead of platitudes and misinformation, it’s time to offer them real protection - for example, girls and women are bombarded with information about preventing pregnancy, but do not receive adequate medical information about fertility risks caused by advanced age. Recipient of the 2010 Smart Marriages Impact Award.
Relationship Enhancement Program Participant's Manual
Bernard Guerney

Spiral bound, $17.95 .

Contains chapters which describe in detail the 9 skills that make up the Relationship Enhancement Program: Empathic, Expressive, Discussion/Negotiation, Problem/Conflict Resolution, Self-Change and Other-Change, Partner Facilitation, Generalization and Maintenance. Also includes Summary Skill Guidelines, Relationship Questionnaires, Relationship Enhancement Phrase Finder, and other helpful tools. To order, call 301-986-1479 or go to www.nire.org.

29 used and new from $0.32, Paperback, iUniverse, ISBN: 0595291023
Keith Hackett
Couples and the Art of Playing: Three Easy and Enjoyable Ways to Nurture and Heal Relationships Discover how to playfully revitalize your relationship overnight without having to spend a lot of money or learn complicated techniques. This book is short and can be easily read in less than two hours. Learn how to develop good habits that offer hope for the future in playful, creative, and empowering ways.
56 used and new from $3.91, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787979597
Scott Haltzman, Theresa Foy DiGeronimo
The Secrets of Happily Married Men: Eight Ways to Win Your Wife's Heart Forever "The world has largely given up on the idea that men might be fit for family life and cooperative, communicative equality with women. Haltzman to the rescue. He addresses the pain and confusion of guys trying to answer Freud’s ‘What does a woman want?’, or, more germane, ‘What does a woman’s therapist want?’ Crammed with good advice for men and with cues to help women understand what if feels like to be a man - should be on the bedside table of any marriage with a man in it." - Frank Pittman
34 used and new from $1.64, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787996122
Scott Haltzman, Theresa Foy DiGeronimo
The Secrets of Happily Married Women: How to Get More Out of Your Relationship by Doing Less In The Secrets of Happily Married Men we learn that the key is for men to treat marriage with the same sense of purpose, resolve, and single-minded devotion that they have for their job. While that works for men – an entirely different set of criteria resonate with women. In The Secrets of Happily Married Women we learn that the happy wives are the ones that know how to get more out of their partners by doing less, by not trying so hard to make men perfect, not dragging them to couples therapy, not expecting them to think or behave like a woman. Learn the secrets – how to tap into men's powerful hard-wired desire to please women and "be a better man."
53 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310276594
Terry Hargrave
Boomers on the Edge: Three Realities That Will Change Your Life Forever The baby boomer generation is under siege. Their aging parents need care. Their adult children are moving back home. And they are going back to work because retirement savings are running out. This book helps boomers negotiate the difficult changes, and see how God figures into these changes and how their faith can help them through.
7 used from $174.99, Hardcover, Zeig, Tucker & Theisen, ISBN: 1891944363
Terry Hargrave
The Essential Humility of Marriage : Honoring the Third Identity in Couple Therapy Challenging entrenched notions about what goeswrong in bad marriages, Hargrave suggests that in strong marriages there is an "us" that takesprecedence over the individual partners, and he shows couples how to support this third identity - the marriage.
110 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Revell, ISBN: 0800718135
Willard Harley, Jr
Buyers, Renters & Freeloaders: Turning Revolving-Door Romance into Lasting Love Filled with practical advice to help you assess relationship attitudes and transform a Freeloader or Renter into a fully-committed Buyer. You'll even learn how one or both of you can try out the Buyer attitude before you decide to become one. Although intended to help dating couples create lifelong relationships together, you'll find this helpful in your marriage to discover what is behind the attitudes that can cause connectedness between you to break down and how to change things.
115 used and new from $2.18, Hardcover, Revell, ISBN: 0800717937
Willard Harley, Jr
Fall in Love, Stay in Love Discover how to fall in love by meeting each other's important emotional needs; stay in love by avoiding habits that chip away at your love; and, finally, master the art of negotiating to create a compatible lifestyle. With these essential steps in place, you and your spouse will enjoy a romantic,passionate, life-long love for each other and a happy, successful marriage.
337 used and new from $0.72, Hardcover, Revell, ISBN: 0800717880
Willard Harley Jr.
His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage This classic best-seller identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouses with guidance for "becoming irresistible to your spouse" and for loving more creatively and sensitively, thereby eliminating the problems that often lead to extramarital affairs.
42 used and new from $15.34, Paperback, Brookings Institution Press, ISBN: 0815703228
Ron Haskins, Isabel Sawhill
Creating an Opportunity Society This book examines economic opportunity and explores how to create more of it, particularly for those at the bottom of the ladder with a concrete agenda that is cost effective, consistent with American values, and focuses on improving the lives of the young and the disadvantaged. They recommend a three-pronged approach: Increase education for children and youth; Encourage and support work among adults; and, Reduce the number of out-of-wedlock births while increasing the share of children reared by their married parents. With concern for the deficit, they argue for reallocating existing resources, especially from the affluent elderly to disadvantaged children and their families.
18 used and new from $9.00, Hardcover, Random House Canada, ISBN: 0307357279
Chip Heath, Dan Heath
Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard Why is it so hard to make lasting changes in our companies, in our communities, and in our own lives? The primary obstacle is a conflict that's built into our brains – our minds are ruled by two different systems - the rational mind and the emotional mind - that compete for control. The rational mind wants a great beach body; the emotional mind wants that Oreo cookie. This tension can doom a change effort - but if it is overcome, change can come quickly. Learn how everyday people - employees and managers, parents and nurses - have united both minds and, as a result, achieved dramatic, transformative change.
32 used and new from $7.28, Paperback, New Harbinger Publications, ISBN: 1572243341
Susan Heitler, Abigail Hirsch
The Power of Two Workbook "Aimed at real people coping with the real problems of living together -- couples with pretty good marriages and very good intentions but a faulty instruction book on life and relationships. This workbook is wise, optimistic, and a lot of fun." - Frank Pittman
75 used and new from $1.84, Paperback, New Harbinger Publications, ISBN: 1572240598
Susan Heitler
"Dr. Heitler teaches the skills that make marriges successful. With easy-to-remember guidelines and entertaining examples, she shows us how to deepen intimacy, resolve conflicts, and create satisfying dialogue to insure a joyful and lasting marriage," - John Gray
37 used and new from $5.41, Hardcover, Rodale Books, ISBN: 1579548326
Gay Hendricks, Kathlyn Hendricks
Lasting Love: The 5 Secrets of Growing a Vital, Conscious Relationship In this long-awaited follow-up to Conscious Loving, the authors take on two of the most pressing problems that sap vitality and energy from committed relationships: how to forge a closer relationship that still allows each partner full creative autonomy and how to generate passion while preserving the harmony essential to keeping long-term partnerships alive and flourishing.
"More than any self-help book I've seen, this one clearly points the way to satisfying relationships." - Jon Carlson
54 used and new from $3.92, Hardcover, Hay House, ISBN: 140190887X
Gay Hendricks, Kathlyn Hendricks
Spirit-Centered Relationships: Experiencing Greater Love and Harmony Through the Power of Presencing (Book & CD) With the book's practical magic - three ways to implement 'the power of presencing' and included CD, you and your beloved will learn how to feel connected on the spiritual level, in times of stress as well as in times of joy and abundance. You'll learn to love so generously and wisely that your relationship becomes a sacred treasure to you and an inspiration to others. John Bradshaw has said, “I consider Gay and Kathlyn to be my teachers.”
100 used and new from $1.78, Paperback, Atria Books, ISBN: 0743483677
Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
Getting the Love You Want Workbook: The New Couples' Study Guide A companion workbook to the enormously successful New York Times bestselling relationship book, Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples. Contains a unique twelve-week course (The New Couples' Study Guide) designed to help work through the exercises in Part III of Getting the Love You Want.
640 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Holt Paperbacks, ISBN: 0805068953
Harville Hendrix
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples Hendrix combines what he's learned in a number of disciplines, including cognitive and Gestalt therapies to help couples transform their relationship into a Conscious Marriage -- a lasting source of love and companionship. With exercises that quickly get everyone's cards on the table, he covers what it takes to get past the most common forms of relationship dysfunction and teaches the essential practice of "becoming passionate friends".
38 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Twofold Publications, ISBN: 0974535184
Jan Hoistad
Big Picture Partnering: 16 Weeks to a Rock-Solid Relationship Practical and bold, this 16-week program teaches couples how to create nourishing, affirming, and downright wonderful relationships — without compromising individuality or autonomy. The 10 Essentials clear the way life-affirming decisions about everything from parenting, to career-changing, to planning for retirement. Exercises, inventories.
32 used and new from $10.00, Paperback, Kings Road Press, ISBN: 0977395405
Marshall Howard
Let's Have Lunch Together (How to Reach Out and Build More Powerful Relationships) Buy this groundbreaking book... Then follow the steps and never eat lunch alone again! Learn the secrets and how-to's that turn boards and supporters into legions of powerful mission partners. Imagine generating millions without spending a ton of extra time, money or making big changes. Full of golden nuggets that workl for the seasoned veteran and the novice fundraiser. "If you don't have the chance to hear Marshall speak, make this your relationship-building Bible." Bob Olson, VP, Medical Foundation "I wish I could make this book required reading for everyone in the Marriage Education field." Diane Sollee, Director, Smart Marriages.
11 used and new from $7.58, Unknown Binding, HJ Books, ISBN: 0967665922
Patty Howell, Ralph Jones
Helps readers achieve the emotional intimacy, mutual cooperation and lasting friendship every couple desires. Easy to read and practical. Combines research wisdom and years of professional experience with examples from the authors' own successful 27-year marriage to show the reader a powerful pathway to a more rewarding relationship. Now translated into 9 languages. Available from: http://www.worldclassmarriage.com
31 used and new from $11.96, Hardcover, Rowman & Littlefield Publishers, ISBN: 1442203250
Patty Howell
World Class Marriage: How to Create the Relationship You Always Wanted with the Partner You Already Have This warm and practical guide will help readers keep or retrieve the love, closeness, and intimacy everyone wants from marriage - written by two experienced marriage and relationship educators who have been married 30 yrs, guides couples to avoid relationship damage and create lasting love, with unique insights and examples from their own marriage and experiences teaching relationship skills around the world.
42 used and new from $2.83, Hardcover, Ivan R Dee, ISBN: 1566637090
Kay Hymowitz
Marriage and Caste in America: Separate and Unequal Families in a Post-Marital Age Recipient of the 2007 Smart Marriages Impact Award.
"Marriage and Caste in America is the best single book on the damage being done to our nation by the explosion of divorce and nonmarital births. Beginning with the widely ignored fact that it is minorities and the poor who are disproportionately affected by family breakdown, this provocative book presents a disturbing tale of cultural meltdown. Reading it is like reading a cultural obituary." - Ron Haskins

39 used and new from $0.63, Paperback, Career Press, ISBN: 1564144739
Azriela Jaffe
Two Jews Can Still Be a Mixed Marriage Jewish couple who are negotiating religious observance differences in the marriage, such as sabbath, kosher, mikvah, synagogue attendance, observance of holidays,day schools, and more! Includes examples of how more than 100 Jewish couples of all different denominations are making it work.
69 used and new from $0.75, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787958883
Natalie Jenkins, Scott Stanley, William Bailey, Howard Markman
You Paid How Much For That?: How to Win at Money Without Losing at Love Money is the number one problem area for couples because money isn't simply about dollars and cents. If you scratch the surface of any money issue, you'll find a relationship issue complicating if not actually driving the problem. This book not only sound delivers principles of money management but also provides practical tools to understand the deeper meanings of money and resolve the problems it raises in your relationship.
69 used and new from $13.87, Hardcover, Little, Brown and Company, ISBN: 031611300X
Sue Johnson
Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love Heralded by the New York Times as the couple therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy works because it views the love relationship as an attachment bond. This idea, once controversial, has become widely popular among therapists. In HOLD ME TIGHT, Johnson translates her model for the general public –  introduces the concept of "effective dependency", key moments  - from Recognizing the Demon Dialogue to Revisiting a Rocky Moment, and seven healing conversations. Through case studies and practical exercises, couples learn how to nurture their relationships and ensure a lifetime of love.
74 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Harper Paperbacks, ISBN: 0060957999
Carol Jones, Staff of RESOLVE
Resolving Infertility The National Infertility Association and HarperCollins Publishers RESOLVE's 370-page comprehensive book on the medical, emotional and decision-making aspects of the infertility experience.
34 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787947679
Pamela Jordan, Scott Stanley, Howard Markman
Becoming Parents: How to Strengthen Your Marriage As Your Family Grows From the authors of the best-selling Fighting FOR Your Marriage, Becoming Parents couples survival skills to protect and preserve their marriage and take care of themselves as they become parents for the first time. Based on scientific research and containing real-life examples, Becoming Parents challenges couples to thrive in their relationship and parent together as a team.
CONNECTIONS: Dating and Emotions
Charlene Kamper
Fifteen one hour units introduce teens (14-18) to dating through activities and discussions that help them understand how relationships develop. One leader's guide and one set of participant materials $95. Call for sample lesson or order at 800-695-7975. This skill-based, interactive, ready-to-teach program helps teens learn how to build a lasting relationship and how to spot the signs of potentially abusive relationships. Students also practice effective communication skills and how to monitor their emotions. Appropriate for schools, youth groups, churches and other youth organizations.
Unknown Binding, Dibble Fund for Marital Enhancement, ISBN: 0965242714
Charlene Kamper
Fifteen one hour units help teens and young adults (16-20) prepare for healthy relationships and successful marriages. One leader's guide and one set of participant materials $95. Call for sample lesson or order at 800-695-7975. The up-to-date content reflects the needs of today‚s youth and includes: Self- understanding and building self-esteem; Healthy dating relationships and values clarification; Effective communication and conflict resolution skills; An awareness of the skills needed for a successful marriage. Appropriate for schools, youth groups, churches and other youth organizations.
10 used and new from $38.95, Paperback, Outreach, Inc, ISBN: 0978715349
Stephen Kendrick, Alex Kendrick
Love Dare & Fireproof Couple's Bundle (You Get 2 Love Dare Books, a DVD & 2 Study Guides) Combine the power of The Love Dare with a Fireproof study on the Biblical concepts of unconditional love, freedom from temptation and the differences between men and women with the Couple's Bundle. Includes two copies of The Love Dare and one Fireproof Your Marriage Couple's Kit - an in-home study that integrates Fireproof movie clips with Scripture and thought-provoking questions. Kit includes a six-session DVD and two Participant's Guides. $39.95 a $20 saving off the retail value by buying the combo.
36 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Active Media, ISBN: 0974564508
Jill Kimball, et al
Drawing Families Together, One Meal at a Time With a special introduction by former first lady, Barbara Bush, offers a complete no-nonsense step-by-step, easy-to-follow format that can help any family reconnec and build family unity. What began as a simple idea to help their family has become a way for all families to plan activities, build values and strengthen spirits. And it’s as easy as sitting down to dinner.
6 used and new from $24.95, Paperback, Turn the Tide Resource Group, LLC, ISBN: 0976955601
K. Jason Krafsky
Before "I Do": Preparing for the Full Marriage Experience Interactive workbook to help engaged, pre-engaged and newlywed couples discover the practical insights, scriptural principles, and must-have relationship skills they need to experience all marriage has to offer. Ideal pre-marital program for pastors, counselors, small group leaders, and mentor couples that can be used with a relationship inventory or solo.
185 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Miramax, ISBN: 0786862181
Iris Krasnow
Surrendering to Marriage: Husbands, Wives, and Other Imperfections Surrendering to Marriage moves beyond a how-to manual; instead it's a book on surrendering to the reality that "Being married happily-ever-after doesn't guarantee that we get to be happy. When we expect sustained happiness we get sustained disappointment - or divorce." Krasnow shows us that the basic components of a successful marriage have little to do with bursts of bliss and everything to do with letting go of fantasy and embracing the ordinary grind in our relationships, a surrender that is wholly and unexpectedly fulfilling.
"This book should be on everyone's wedding gift list, right next to the blender." - Oprah Winfrey
59 used and new from $6.97, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310273943
Debra Laaser
Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed

This book proves that while the pain of sexual betrayal can break your heart, it doesn't have to break your life.Laaser offers practical and proven tools to help women struggling with sexual betrayal make wise and empowered decisions inspired by the author’s personal journey through betrayal, her work with hundreds of hurting women, and her intimate marriage two decades after the disclosure of her husband’s infidelity.

35 used and new from $9.66, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310278163
Mark and Debra Laaser
The Seven Desires of Every Heart In this instructive and inspirational book, Mark and Debra Laaser teach us how to have richer relationships with God and others. Using stories and straightforward observations, they examine seven desires we all share, and illustrate how understanding those desires can enhance our marriages and relationships and enrich our lives.
16 used and new from $0.07, Paperback, 1st Book Library, ISBN: 1585005207
Cary Lantz
1 used from $312.13, Paperback, A & E Family Pub, ISBN: 0967359902
Aaron Larson
Dads at a Distance : An Activities Handbook for Strengthening Long Distance Relationships

120 activities that long distance dads can do to help strengthen and maintain relationships with their children.

(preview at http://www.daads.com & order direct from the publisher by sending $4.95 plus $1.55 s&h to Daads, Box 16659 Knoxville, TN 37996)

56 used and new from $2.46, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787951447
Jeffry Larson
Should We Stay Together?

A book that provides couples with the tools they need to make better decisions and thoroughly explore every aspect of their relationship.

(US orders at 800-956-7739, Canadian orders at 888-866-5559)

48 used and new from $0.35, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787962120
Jeffry Larson
The Great Marriage Tune-Up Book: A Proven Program for Evaluating and Renewing Your Relationship All couples reach a point where they feel frusturated, stuck, bored, disillusioned and in need of the kind of tune-up provided here with easy-to-use quizzes, self-tests and personal assessments that explain the underlying issues and offer solutions.
"Reading this one book will give you more insight into your marriage and how to improve it than reading a dozen standard books on marriage." - William Doherty
73 used and new from $7.49, Paperback, McGraw-Hill, ISBN: 0071438033
Monica Mendez Leahy
1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married There's nothing wrong with starter jobs and starter homes, but starter marriages? Relationship expert Monica Leahy is on a mission to help readers make their marriage last. Her book offers a reality check that helps couples realize how much they have yet to discover about their partner's nature, thought processes, lifestyle, and marital expectations. Couples learn to broach subjects that are often ignored before the nuptialsintroduced in a variety of formats, including multiple choice, fill-in-the-blank, and hypotheticals.
45 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787953849
Janice Levine, Howard Markman
Why Do Fools Fall in Love: Experiencing the Magic, Mystery, and Meaning of Successful Relationships (Wiley Series in Psychology) This enchanting book, written by 32 of the world's leading relationship experts, offers an anthology of essays exploring the nature of love. It answers the age-old questions: What is love? Why is it so compelling? and How can we use this insight to nurture and protect love's magic over a lifetime? Perfect for couples and therapists alike.
272 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Hyperion, ISBN: 0786863943
Julia Lewis, Sandra Blakeslee
The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study Is being a child of divorce more difficult than being trapped in an unhappy home? Feuding parents face this question every day, but the answer isn't that cut and dried. Authors Judith Wallerstein, Julia Lewis, and Sandra Blakeslee speak with individuals of almost every scenario, and determine that the solution must begin with an effort to strengthen marriages--often before they even begin.
48 used and new from $5.59, Mass Market Paperback, Plume, ISBN: 0452273668
Patricia Love, Jo Robinson
Hot Monogamy: Essential Steps to More Passionate, Intimate Lovemaking Based on research from real couples, this book gives you the basic steps for creating and maintaining passion in your marriage. Easy to read, down-to- earth and full of user-friendly information that will help you understand and transform common sexual issues.Audiotape versions with workbook: 512-891-0610
43 used and new from $6.47, Hardcover, Broadway, ISBN: 0767923170
Patricia Love, Steven Stosny
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It: Finding Love Beyond Words

Men are right. "Relationship talk” does not help. This book reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness: Love is not about better communication. It's about connection. Men want closer marriages just as much as women do, but not if they has to act like a woman. The secret of the silent male is this: his wife supplies the meaning in his life. And so on.... tons of practical advice about the behaviors that make and break marriages. This essential guide will help couples find love beyond words. Or, to be perfectly clear, take a look at the Russian cover: /uploaded/Without.Talking.About.It.jpg

Love's Lessons: Volume I and II
Pat Love and Sunny Shulkin - 2001

Volume I: Creating Love tells the stories of couples who faced love's obstacles, learned their lessons and created love. Includes Discussion Questions, Food for Thought (and in the Leader's Guide, Imago Education's Key Principles). For individuals or couples for self study or for Leaders to use in their setting.

Volume II: Deepening Intimacy Couples' stories teach love's lessons in deepening emotional and physical intimacy. Order at http://www.imagoeducation.com

34 used and new from $7.74, Paperback, HCI, ISBN: 0757315658
Pat Love, Jon Carlson
Never Be Lonely Again: The Way Out of Emptiness, Isolation, and a Life  Unfulfilled

In our fast-paced world of longer working hours and endless distractions, it's difficult to develop and maintain relationships that soothe the soul. After a momentous meeting with the Dalai Lama, Love and Carlson began to develop an approach that would recalibrate the way they understood relationships and help us learn how to find the time to maintain friendships, be truly present for a partner, and reach out to people when in need.

106 used and new from $1.98, Paperback, Bantam, ISBN: 055335275X
Pat Love
The Emotional Incest Syndrome: What to do When a Parent's Love Rules Your Life A highly supportive book based on Structural Family Therapy, Emotional Incest explains family dynamics and conflict in a refreshing non-blaming manner. Cited as one of the best books on personal boundaries, it presents a positive guide for transforming relationships. Information also available on tape. Contact Pat Love www.patlove.com or 512-891-0610.
114 used and new from $1.40, Paperback, Touchstone, ISBN: 0684871882
Pat Love
The Truth About Love: The Highs, the Lows, and How You Can Make It Last Forever "I still love him but I'm not IN LOVE anymore?" In this groundbreaking guide to the physiology and psychology of lasting love, Love reveals that love has normal, predictable stages that include highs and lows, and that many couples mistake the lows for the end of love. This practical guide will teach you how not to break up before the breakthrough realization: You can create the true love you long for with the partner you already have.
52 used and new from $4.70, Hardcover, Rodale Books, ISBN: 1605295817
Cloe Madanes
Relationship Breakthrough: How to Create Outstanding Relationships in Every Area of Your Life Cloe Madanes—an expert in creating healing, empowering relationships—gives readers vital, cutting-edge tools to create rewarding, sustainable relationships. Using simple, step-by-step exercises and drawing on the examples of clients she ties the guiding principles of Tony Robbins's work with her own revolutionary approach to relationship therapy to help us understand and achieve the fundamental needs we all have.
54 used and new from $4.14, Hardcover, Crown Archetype, ISBN: 0767924037
Hara Estroff Marano
A Nation of Wimps: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting Wake up, America: We’re raising a nation of wimps. They can’t make their own decisions, cope with anxiety, lack leadership skills, and as college graduates can’t even negotiate their own salaries without bringing mom or dad in for a consult. Hothouse parents are raising teacup children—brittle and breakable, instead of strong and resilient. This crisis threatens to destroy the fabric of our society, to undermine both our democracy and economy. Without future leaders or daring innovators, where will we go? What can be done?
147 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787968005
Howard Markman, Scott Stanley, Natalie Jenkins, Susan Blumberg, Carol Whiteley
12 Hours to a Great Marriage: A Step-by-Step Guide for Making Love Last An easy-to-use, low-cost version of PREP - the world’s most successful marriage enhancement program. This book requires a commitment to 12 hours of relationship work and offers specific data, guidelines, proven methods, examples, anecdotes, self-tests, and exercises to do together and individually. For anyone who wants to enhance and preserve their relationship, the PREP method works.
75 used and new from $10.23, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0470485914
Howard Markman, Scott Stanley, Susan Blumberg
Fighting for Your Marriage: A Deluxe Revised Edition of the Classic Best-seller for Enhancing Marriage and Preventing Divorce Since 1994, this best-selling classic has been the go-to reference for couples that want to enhance their marriage and prevent divorce. This thoroughly revised and updated 3rd edition (which contains a new instructional DVD for couples) is based on the widely acclaimed PREP approach. Groundbreaking studies have found that couples who use the strategies of this proven approach are able to handle conflict more constructively, protect their happiness, and reduce the odds of breaking up.
81 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Crown, ISBN: 0307237109
Elizabeth Marquardt
Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce Based on a pioneering new national study, this book challenges the idea of the "good divorce," arguing that while an amicable divorce is certainly better than a bitter one, even amicable divorces sow lasting inner conflict in the lives of children. It is the first nationally representative study to examine the moral and spiritual impact of divorce on children, and the only major study authored by a young scholar who was herself a child of divorce.
37 used and new from $9.95, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415994691
Barry McCarthy, Emily McCarthy
Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style: The Key to Sexual Satisfaction A totally new approach to developing sexual comfort and confidence. Sex is not about performance or proving something to yourself or your partner. Healthy couple sexuality is about sharing desire, pleasure, and satisfaction. It is about both people valuing intimacy, pleasuring, and eroticism, while maintaining positive, realistic expectations of the role and meaning of couple sexuality. The very concept of a couple sexual style is radically transformative and inspirational. It creates hope and confidence as couples realize that its in their power to create and maintain, decorate and refurbish their own style—together. -Diane Sollee
43 used and new from $6.87, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415948290
Barry & Emily McCarthy
Getting it Right the First Time: Creating a Healthy Marriage What every couple needs to know to understand what really makes a marriage work. Clear, helpful guidelines for creating a healthy marriage and strategies, skills, and attitudes that to prevent disappointment, resentment and alienation from entering the relationship.
"The winning formula and the best wedding present you could give yourselves or a couple you care about." - Diane Sollee
32 used and new from $1.99, Paperback, Da Capo Press, ISBN: 078670473X
Barry McCarthy, Emily McCarthy
Male Sexual Awareness (McCarthy, Barry & Emily) Confronting the myths of rigid male roles and unrealistic performance demands, the McCarthy's advocate a pleasure-oriented approach to male sexuality.This book explores the problems which prevent men from living a fully human and satisfying sexual life.
42 used and new from $9.15, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415956382
Barry McCarthy, Michael Metz
Men's Sexual Health: Fitness for Satisfying Sex This pro-male, pro-sex, pro-marriage book, written by, for and about men, is organized around three main topics - awareness and enhancement of sexuality, dealing with sexual problems, and lifelong healthy sexuality. Another way to put it is that it helps men deal with the challenge of integrating intimacy without losing their sense of eroticism and accepting the Good Enough Sex model rather than clinging to the male dominant, perfect intercourse performance approach. It tackles the barriers and problems that limit sexual practice, discusses how to enhance sexual satisfaction and offers understanding of and solutions for problems such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, inhibited sexual desire, ejaculatory inhibition and compulsive sexual behavior. Exercises and activities provide skills training, and stimulate healthy sexual practice.
82 used and new from $5.23, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415935512
Barry and Emily McCarthy
Rekindling Desire: A Step by Step Program to Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages Guidance couples so desperately need to revitalize low-sex and no-sex marriages in a ten-step approach that utilizes practical guidelines and clear exercises that ease couples into working together as an intimate team to confront the guilt, anger, anxiety, shame ,and inhibitions which trap them, increase intimacy, pleasuring, and eroticism and develop their own broad based, flexible couple sexual style. Includes an individualized relapse prevention program to help couplesgeneralize gains and prevent relapse.
20 used and new from $7.61, Paperback, Da Capo Press, ISBN: 0786710152
Barry McCarthy, Emily McCarthy
Sexual Awareness: Couple Sexuality for the Twenty-First Century (McCarthy, Barry & Emily) Written for couples who want to enhance intimacy and sexual satisfaction, this practical book increases awareness and motivation. The guidelines, exercises, and case studies are a positive force for change.
70 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Top Shelf Pr, ISBN: 0972714405
Cheryl McClary
The Commitment Chronicles: The Power of Staying Together This streetwise, straight-shootin guide to relationship happiness and personal fulfillment presents McClary's journey through a 23-year marriage with poignant, humorous and heartwarming detail, and provides page-by-page instructions for fixing a marriage, creating healthy relationships, and finally learning to love yourself.
77 used and new from $0.06, Hardcover, Howard Books, ISBN: 1416550984
Mike & Harriett McManus
Living Together: Myths, Risks & Answers

Since the 60s, the number of couples living together before marriage has increased significantly. The theory that couples could "practice" seemed a perfect solution to an increasingly higher divorce rate. "After all," many argued, "if we live together first, we will really know if we're compatible." The sad reality is that the divorce rate is actually higher for couples who cohabit. Mike & Harriet explain that you can not practice permanence and why to be successful a marriage must be approached as permanent. Learn the many reasons why cohabitation is not the answer and the important principles that really do give couples the necessary tools for successful marriage.

75 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310386616
Michael McManus
Marriage Savers Help couples prepare for a life-long marriage, strengthen an existing one or save a troubled one with mentoring couples that have proven effective at every stage, and guidelines for how to jump-start programs in churches united in "Community Marriage Policies" that have reduced divorce rates of metro areas by as much as 35%. To order: Marriage Savers, 9311 Harrington Dr., Potomac, MD 20854.
44 used and new from $10.98, Paperback, New Harbinger Publications, ISBN: 1572243864
Michele Metz and Barry McCarthy
Coping With Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex Particularly relevant to couples because it presents a comprehensive bio-psychosocial approach to understanding, assessment, and treatment. Rather than seeing ED as the man's issue and using a stand-alone medical intervention (e.g. Viagra), ED is viewed as a couple issue and if medication is used it is integrated in the couple's intimacy, pleasuring and eroticism style. Includes an uncomplicated explanation of ED and a discussion of mythologies that surround male sexuality, exercises, plus guidelines for relapse prevention.
34 used and new from $12.47, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415878306
Michael Metz, Barry McCarthy
Enduring Desire: Your Guide to Lifelong Intimacy Recipient of the AASCET 2011 BEST BOOK AWARD. Metz and McCarthy inspire and motivate with real-life examples and clear, helpful exercises to reach for realistic, high quality sexual satisfaction in any lifelong relationship. They promote positive, realistic expectations without commercialism and the hype that sets people up for disappointment. They advocate a down to earth “Good Enough Sex” (GES) model for all couples from their 20s to 80s, which validates the inherent variability and flexibility of couple sexuality.
15 used and new from $8.47, Paperback, TwoVus Press, ISBN: 0979698324
Jon Meyerson, Beverly Meyerson
After The Glass Slipper: 8 Proven Steps to Lasting Love The Cinderella fairy tale continues, describing how the royal couple experiences the same conflicts all couples do. Written with wit and whimsy, the book tells how Fairy Godmother and Caring Godfather teach the couple specific steps to help them live happily ever after. The Meyersons' unique insight provides you with the skills needed for a joyful and harmonious relationship with your life partner. The Wedding Edition includes a special introduction and makes an ideal engagement gift.
– A delightful book, sheer genius. Give this to every newlywed you know. Diane Sollee, Director, Smart Marriages.
15 used and new from $0.02, Hardcover, Mastering LifeSkills Inc, ISBN: 0962652512
Charlie Michaels & Mike Brown
Mastering Marriage, For Every Couple Who Wants to Grow Happier and More in Love Each Year Twenty down-to-earth ideas to strengthen your relationship and launch a lifelong love affair with your spouse. Use with The Marriage Pact Questionnaire Playbook and your marriage will exceed your expectations. Easy to read, understand and implement - takes your relationship to a new level of joy and intimacy. Quotes, examples cartoons. The authors, Mr & Mrs Michael Brown, have been Happily Married 25 Years and Proud of It!
155 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Amy Einhorn Books/Putnam, ISBN: 0399156658
Laura Munson
This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season of Unlikely Happiness When Laura Munson's essay was published, The NY Times was so flooded with responses that they had to close down the comment feature. Readers wrote saying they had sent the column to all of their friends, therapists that they were passing it out to their clients. Laura detailed what happened when her husband of more than twenty years told her he wasn't sure he loved her anymore and wanted to move out. Laura's response to her husband: I don't buy it.
142 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Wiley, ISBN: 0470114630
M. Gary Neuman
The Truth about Cheating: Why Men Stray and What You Can Do to Prevent It Few events cause as much turmoil in a marriage as infidelity - and those who think it won't happen to them are hit much harder when it does. Why are men unfaithful? Can a wife ensure that her husband won't stray? What do men say they're getting from their mistresses that they're missing at home? Do a man's friends have anything to do with his cheating? A cutting-edge research study which interviewed close to 100 cheating men from 48 states presents provocative answers and proactive strategies to help women prevent infidelity, and create a faithful and rewarding marriage.
89 used and new from $3.50, Paperback, Perigee Trade, ISBN: 0399521372
C. Notarius, Howard Markman
We Can Work It Out: How to Solve Conflicts, Save Your Marriage A powerful book for dealing with conflicts and differences productively. Includes many examples and exercises for working through issues, dealing with anger, and keeping your marriage strong.
27 used and new from $13.80, Hardcover, Thomas Nelson, ISBN: 0785228276
David Olson, Amy Olson-Sigg, Peter Larson
The Couple Checkup: Find Your Relationship Strengths

A book and and FREE online profile that identifies a couple's strengths to help them build a more vital relationship utilizing principles based on an a national survey of 50,000 marriages. For dating, engaged, or married couples. The book also includes the SCOPE Personality Profile and the Couple and Family Map of the relationship and each chapter incudes couple exercises to help build couple strengths in a variety of areas.

195 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Broadway Books, ISBN: 0767900421
Susan Page
How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together This groundbreaking approach to relationships gives you the tools and encouragement to bring positive changes to your relationship, even if your partner is unwilling to do the work. Based on the premise that what you do in a relationship makes changes faster than anything you discuss, Page introduces the concept of "Loving Leadership" and offers fourteen empowering and doable strategies for recapturing the positive feelings.
74 used and new from $5.06, Paperback, Three Rivers Press, ISBN: 0609809091
Susan Page
If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?: Ten Strategies That Will Change Your Love Life Forever 10 strategies for readers to reach better self-understanding and ultimately a fulfilling relationship. Filled with revealing anecdotes, case studies, and quizzes, the book’s down-to-earth guidance will appeal to everyone who devoured books like Mars and Venus on a Date and Getting the Love You Want, and anyone who wants a fulfilling intimate relationship.  "Behold a wonder–a romantic self-help book that is intelligent, upbeat, practical, useful, winning, and even wise." –Kirkus Reviews
53 used and new from $4.22, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787995290
Susan Page
Why Talking Is Not Enough: Eight Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage An effective relationship strategy based on subtle, powerful changes in your own actions. This method shows you the magic of “Keep your mouth out of it!” Page’s pioneering eight-step program invites you to give up problem solving and move directly to a warmer, more loving and fun relationship, based on universal spiritual principles.
5 used from $39.21, Paperback, Center for Educational Media, ISBN: 1888933119
Richard Panzer
Relationship Intelligence: Why Your RQ is More Important to Your Success and Happiness Than Your IQ It takes a look at recent trends regarding relationships, especially an ongoing cultural reexamination of 20th century myths about sexuality, growing scientific evidence for the benefits of committed relationships and marriage, and deeper societal awareness of male/female differences and stages of love and intimacy. Filled with first person accounts and personal stories.
13 used and new from $4.34, Paperback, InstantPublisher, ISBN: 1591960223
Judy Parejko
Stolen Vows: The Illusion of No-Fault Divorce and the Rise of the American Divorce Industry No-fault divorce was supposed to be an "enlightened" reform that would help couples by increasing their chances for reconciliation. Just the opposite happened! The practice of unilateral "forced" divorce took hold and the divorce rate soared. The story told here is reminiscent of The Emperor’s New Clothes. Find out what lies ahead.
96 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310248507
Les and Leslie Parrott
Love List, The A no-nonsense, straight-shooting plan that gets results for every couple, day in and day out - shows you how a few small actions-practiced on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis-can change everything for a couple. It isn’t so much a to do list as it is a map for your journey. And, it's fun.
130 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310207541
Les and Leslie Parrott
Questions Couples Ask Provides answers to the top 100 martial questions on everything from communication, conflict, and careers to sex, in-laws and money.
321 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310492408
Les and Leslie Parrott
Saving Your Marriage Before It StartsSaving Your Marriage Before It Starts (SYMBIS) SYMBIS, a comprehensive marriage prep program for today's couple, will help you whether you're contemplating marriage, engaged or already married discover the myths of marriage, identify your love style, bridge the gender gap, fight a good fight, and much more. Accompanying Men's and Women's Workbooks $4.25 ea.; audio pages $13.60.
115 used and new from $4.21, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310207487
Les and Leslie Parrott
Saving Your Second Marriage Before It Starts

A staggering 60% of remarriages end in divorce - tip the odds in your favor with proven wisdom and skills. This comprehensive guide will help you surmountthe issues and make your second marriage healthy, satisfying, and enduring. Explore nine critical questions you need to ask before- and after - you remarry, and how to avoid making the same mistakes twice.

Accompanying Men's and Women's Workbooks $4.25 ea.; audio pages $13.60.

56 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310224608
Les Parrott
Shoulda, Coulda, Woulda: Live in the Present, Find Your Future Every honest human has regrets from missed doors of opportunity we should have opened to conversations we wish we could do over to irreplaceable moments where we would wind back time if we could. Either your past is serving as a springboard to a better tomorrow or is the albatross keeping you from moving forward. Parrott shows how to cope with regret and guilt, replace shame with self-respect, forgive yourself, and keep new regrets from piling up.
73 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310224594
Les and Leslie Parrott
When Bad Things Happen to Good Marriages The question isn't whether you'll face struggles as a couple, but how you'll handle them. The Parrotts explore, six bad things that sneak up on good marriages, five tools good couples use to battle bad things, four bad things that jolt good marriages to their core, three good things that turn bad for some couples and one bad thing every marriage can make better. Accompanying men's and women's workbooks include 21 self-tests and exercises
122 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310245974
Les and Leslie Parrott
Your Time-Starved Marriage: How to Stay Connected at the Speed of Life Feeling overscheduled and underconnected? Learn how to make every moment together count with practical, accessible, guidelines to help you identify and maximize and combine your two unique time styles. This is not a book about being more productive—it’s a book about being more connected as a couple.
92 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310200148
Les and Leslie Parrott
Becoming Soul Mates Cultivate a strong spiritual union with 52 reflections that include Scripture passages, discussion topics, and practical applications for the week.A Daily Calendar containing inspirational thoughts on marriage and weekly discussion starters, is a companion to Becoming Soul Mates. Perfect for a desktop or kitchen window sill.
59 used and new from $5.49, Hardcover, Zondervan, ISBN: 0310270464
Les and Leslie Parrott
The Complete Guide to Marriage Mentoring: Connecting Couples to Build Better Marriages It's what so many of you have been looking for -- a complete, step-by-step guide to marriage mentoring. The Parrotts define what Marriage Mentoring is and isn’t; identify common mentoring pitfalls; discuss the wonders of the “boomerang effect"; explain the Marriage Mentor Triad; and teach the “eleven essential skills of marriage mentoring".
61 used and new from $7.22, Paperback, Harper Perennial, ISBN: 0060753641
Esther Perel
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence This bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex invites us to explore the
paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes
to bring lust home. Through case studies and lively discussion, she
demonstrates how exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in
long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is
straightforward, this book will transform the way you live and love.....and what you teach couples. 
29 used and new from $4.50, Hardcover, Basic Books, ISBN: 046502016X
Irving Kirsch Ph.D.
The Emperor's New Drugs: Exploding the Antidepressant Myth
Kirsch argues that antidepressant drugs are NOT effective and that the idea of depression as a chemical imbalance in the brain is pure myth. Kirsch provides what he says is evidence that antidepressants are no better than placebo pills. So should millions of Americans flush their pills down the toilet? It's a dangerous thought, but, if Kirsch is right, so is the idea of people needlessly taking expensive medications with potentially serious side effects.
417 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Child Management, ISBN: 0963386190
Thomas Phelan
1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 It’s not easy being a parent—and handling the disrespectful outburts of children in a reasonable, unemotional manner when they’re acting like "little monsters." Parents need help, but not help that requires that they be a genius, saint or professional psychotherapist. Learn how your silence can speak louder than your words.
134 used and new from $0.27, Paperback, Parentmagic, Inc., ISBN: 1889140082
Thomas Phelan
Surviving Your Adolescents: How to Manage-and Let Go of-Your 13-18 Year Olds Living with a teenager is no picnic. There are times when you must bite your tongue as your kids push towards independence. Or—if you sense there is trouble—there are times when you must take charge. Discover how to tell normal teenage behavior from problem behavior, and learn the relationship between parent/teen communication and adolescent safety
31 used and new from $0.46, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415929199
Ayala Malach Pines
Falling in Love Written by a renowned psychologist, this fascinating, engaging mix of research and clinical anecdotes discusses how we both consciously and unconsciously select those with whom we have intimate relationships and how we can, through successful relationships, help ourselves to grow as individuals. Each chapter concludes with suggestions for those seeking love.
66 used and new from $8.89, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0415920108
Ayala Malach Pines
“The book is inherently readable, containing an estimable balance of digested knowledge from the empirical literature, combined with carefully chosen and expertly delineated first-person accounts of both the sources and throes of jealousy...Readers will find that the work opens new avenues for their understandings of the causes and expressions of jealousy.” —Journal of Social and Personal Relationships
85 used and new from $1.25, Paperback, St. Martin's Griffin, ISBN: 1582380406
Frank Pittman
Grow Up!: How Taking Responsibility Can Make You a Happy Adult

With optimism, enthusiasm, brilliance and wit, Dr. Pittman reassures us that the secret of happiness lies in being an adult, commiting ourselves to personal honor and integrity, and reconsidering our adult roles in families and society.

120 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Perigee Trade, ISBN: 0399518835
Frank Pittman
Man enough: fathers, sons and the search for masculinity Psychiatrist and family therapist Frank Pittman has written an important book for men and women about the myths of masculinity, and offers a new approach to masculinity, which encompasses team-work, equality and intimacy.
70 used and new from $0.22, Hardcover, W. W. Norton and Company, Inc., ISBN: 0393026345
Frank Pittman
Private Lies: Infidelity and the Betrayal of Intimacy In this wise, compassionate and funny book, Pittman illustrates the four patterns of infidelity,the meaning and by-products of affairs. Persistent myths about infidelity are defused, and suggestions are made about how to make a marriage work.
19 used and new from $10.00, Hardcover, Transaction Publishers, ISBN: 0765802597
David Popenoe
This book does it all - charts where we are, where we've come from and sets exciting possibilities for where we 'might' be going. Or, not. Popenoe includes analysis of marriage/family trends in other countries and cautions about what we should to try to avoid. It's a page turner - or, at least for those of us that care so deeply. Maybe you won't see everyone on your block reading it, but it should be required reading for anyone interested in strengthening marriage - required reading that you'll enjoy. - Diane Sollee
145 used and new from $0.45, Paperback, McGraw-Hill, ISBN: 0809225131
Lee Raffel
Should I Stay Or Go? : How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage This book provides a roadmap for ambivalent, indecisive spouses, introducing 12 pragmatic Controlled Separation® Guidelines and a sample contract. In turn, adversarial couples discover how best to cooperatively negotiate a time-limited, viable separation agreement. As partners cool down and slow down, they are well prepared to make wiser decisions that spare children and families undue trauma.
100 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Atria Books, ISBN: 0743482638
Betty De Ramus
Forbidden Fruit: Love Stories from the Underground Railroad He carried his wife to freedom on his scarred and beaten back - that's really all you need to know about John Little." But journalist DeRamus reveals more about Little and a dozen or so others in this uplifting and sometimes heartbreaking look at love during the U.S.'s slavery years in this collection of fascinating stories of men and women who took extraordinary measures, risking life and limb to be together.
136 used and new from $0.24, Paperback, Scribner, ISBN: 0684868784
Terrence Real
How Can I Get Through to You? Closing the Intimacy Gap Between Men and Women This groundbreaking book offers men and women a radical new vision of love and the practical tools to achieve it. In a time when connection has never seemed more urgent or precious - Real's work has the power to revitalize troubled relationships, transform the legacies we pass onto our children, and profoundly impact our culture.
239 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Scribner, ISBN: 0684835398
Terrence Real
I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression As vivid as a novel, interweaves analysis with tales of poorly-fathered sons who have grown up to become "rage-aholics" or emotional runaways. Real includes his own journey from painful childhood, beaten and ignored by a depressed father, through a troubled manhood, disconnected and seeking solace in drugs, to his eventual healing. Alternate Selection of Book-of-the-Month, the Quality Paperback Book Club, and the One Spirit Book Club.
57 used and new from $4.73, Hardcover, Ballantine Books, ISBN: 1400064015
Terrence Real
The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work Women have changed in the last twenty-five years–they've become powerful, independent, self-confident, and happy. Yet many men remain irresponsible and emotionally detached. They don’t know how to respond to frustrated partners who just want their mates to show up and grow up. Real identifies five non-starters to avoid and shares practical strategies for bringing honesty, passion, and joy back to even the most difficult relationship.
27 used and new from $3.99, Paperback, Resource Pubns, ISBN: 0893905526
Beverly Rodgers, Tom Rodgers
Adult Children of Divorced Parents: Making Your Marriage Work These veteran marriage counselors and adult children of divorced parents bring a professional as well as personal perspective to the struggles of adult children of divorce. Learn how to heal from the emotional wounds resulting from parental divorce: inability to trust, insecurity, fear of abandonment, difficulty communicating and weakened social structures. Learn practical steps to change your odds.
12 used and new from $12.18, Paperback, Selah Publishing Group, LLC, ISBN: 1589301773
Tom Rodgers, Beverly Rodgers
Soul-Healing Love The Rodgers are passionate about love healing the soul because they have it experienced themselves. Their story is one of being healed by the love of God and their marriage being healed as they chose to heal each other's soul with love. This reader-friendly book, with its theoretical and spiritual integrity, exudes hope for couples. Dr. Freda Crews, LPC Host, Time for Hope TV and Dean, International University for Graduate Studies School of Christian Counseling
39 used and new from $0.02, Paperback, NavPress, ISBN: 1576838846
Beverly Rodgers, Tom Rodgers
The Singlehood Phenomenon: 10 Brutally Honest Reasons People Aren't Getting Married Before singles can find their soul mate, they must overcome their skepticism about dating, love, and marriage.
Finding God, Finding Each Other: How Our Marriage Was Saved by the Power of God
Vincent and Linda Ruhl
For individuals that need breakthroughs in their marriages. Level two is training to conduct the program. A resource for hope, forgiveness and love, the book is available at 800 933-9673 ext 92487.
18 used and new from $6.00, Paperback, Marriage Preparation Resources, ISBN: 0967722306
Robert Ruhnke
For Better & For Ever: A Resource for Couples Preparing for Christian Marriage (Roman Catholic Edition) A workbook for couples preparing for Christian marriage under the guidance of their pastor or a trained mentor couple. Completely redesigned to address contemporary challenges: co-habitation, previous marriage, issues of family-of-origin, communication/intimacy skills, interchurch & interfaith marriage, family planning, finances, prayer, and more. Also available in a Protestant edition ISBN: 0-9677223-1-4. To order go to: http://marriagepreparation.com/products.htm
70 used and new from $0.14, Paperback, Shake It!, ISBN: 0966715616
J. S. Salt
How to Be the Almost Perfect Husband: By Wives Who Know This national Bestseller has sold more than 100,000 copies! Based on interviews with 1,000 wives, here's women's advice on pleasing your wife -- warm, engaging and sincere. A true catalyst for conversation that's guaranteed to improve any marriage.
"J.S. Salt has compiled definitive life lessons. Basic truths straight from the heart." — Leeza Gibbons
65 used and new from $0.25, Paperback, Shake It!, ISBN: 0966715624
J. S. Salt
How to Be the Almost Perfect Wife: By Husbands Who Know Men finally open up about their needs in this national Bestseller (more than 100,000 copies sold)!. In this insider's guide to what husbands crave you'll find a collection of honest, sincere (and sometimes frunny) requests from men to their wives. A true catalyst for conversation. Guaranteed to improve any marriage.
"You'll enjoy this practical wisdom ... deliverd with brevity and plenty of wit." —Gregory Godek, 1001 Ways To Be Romantic
13 used and new from $13.25, Paperback, WinePress Publishing, ISBN: 1414118422
Kathy Schoenborn
I Want to Stay Married, But How?: Empowering Christian Women in Marriage Every week, thousands of women sit in church agonizing over their crumbling marriages. Seriously hurting marriages are not a popular topic in the church, and few resources have been available to help save the 50% of marriages in the church that end in divorce – until now. Written by a counselor whose marriage once nearly ended, this book will change the way you think about and do relationships – you'll learn the skills to work smarter, not harder, in relationships.
31 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Adams Media Corporation, ISBN: 1580620493
Virginia Scott, George Doub, Peggy Runnels
Raising a Loving Family Available May, 1999, Everyone wants to have a good family life and be close and happy, but how? This book shows what works for families and what doesn't. It provides simple instructionand practice to help develop good, solid family relationships and keep everyday problems from escalating into more serious ones.
32 used and new from $7.57, Hardcover, Scribner, ISBN: 0743211561
Jonathan Shay, Max Cleland, John McCain
Odysseus in America Shay maintains that Odysseus experienced nearly all of the symptoms he has observed in returned veterans of modern wars: fearfulness, inability to trust or be close to anyone, emotional outbursts, violence, criminal activity, sexual adventurism, and so forth. Homer understood and appreciated what war really meant to the participants. The book offers healing techniques and suggestions for prevention.
"Read this book and understand what the American combat veteran experiences on his return home. Anyone involved in the helping professions will enjoy and benefit. Anybody who has a combat veteran in their family will learn and be better for it. Also, read this book to finally understand Homer." - Dennis Spencer
9 used from $18.07, Paperback, AuthorHouse, ISBN: 1418402184
Karen Sherman, Dale Klein
MARRIAGE MAGIC!: Find It, Keep It, Make It Last! A refreshingly unique self-help book that speaks to those couples who stay together but whose relationship has become stale and flat.  To gain a sense of authenticity, these authors recognize that people must first be aware of their own emotions to ensure that communication is not burdened by emotional barriers.  There are lots of easy exercises to guide the couple so that they can function in day-to-day situations and gain a renewed sense of hope.  These tools work even if just one partner reads the book.
13 used and new from $13.49, Paperback, GrowthClimate, ISBN: 097722080X
Kevin Skinner
Treating Pornography Addiction: The Essential Tools for Recovery This book carefully walks someone struggling with porngraphy through the steps to recovery – beginning with how pornography becomes a problem in the mind and becomes addictive, it teaches the reader how to rewrite the patterns in the mind and closes with the key steps of recovery. "The book is easy to read, not punitive or overly moralistic and very good on stages of change with good on self-help exercises." - Jana Staton
62 used and new from $7.15, Paperback, The Guilford Press, ISBN: 157230801X
Douglas Snyder, Donald Baucom, Kristina Coop Gordon
Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On -- Together or Apart
In the aftermath of infidelity, couples struggle with turmoil and sometimes make decisions they later regret. This book helps overcome the initial shock, understand what happened and why, and think clearly about long term future interests before they act - taking things one step at a time, whether they stay together or part ways. This is the only program to have been empirically tested – and proven – to help partners restore trust and rebuild their marriage after an affair. Even when reconciliation is impossible, this book helps readers recover personally and avoid emotional scars so they can pursue healthier relationships in the future.
51 used and new from $8.55, Paperback, American Medical Association Press, ISBN: 1579470750
Wayne M. Sotile, Mary O. Sotile
The Medical Marriage: Sustaining Healthy Relationships for Physicians and Their Families Learn the individual and interactive steps in new dances of intimacy and how to redirect your coping abilities so that your best skills fuel, rather than damage, your marriage and family life. It will teach you to thrive as a medical couple.
255 used and new from $2.19, Paperback, William Morrow Paperbacks, ISBN: 0060928174
Janis Abrahms Spring
After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful This book offers practical, concrete strategies for strengthening your relationship before or after an affair -- strategies for building trust, kindling sexual intimacy, and considering forgiveness in ways that are human and attainable. Finalist, Best Relationship Book, Books for a Better Life Award
102 used and new from $5.00, Paperback, William Morrow Paperbacks, ISBN: 0060009314
Janis A. Spring
How Can I Forgive You?: The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To Is forgiveness always healthy -- even when the offender is unremorseful or dead? Spring proposes an authentic, life-affirming alternative to help overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with life -- without forgiving. She also develops a radically new concept of genuine forgiveness and details concrete steps for earning forgiveness.
"A fresh and original approach to an ancient challenge. A clinically informedpersonal guide for the offender and the offended - should be read by us all."-- Harville Hendrix, Getting the Love You Want
57 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Avery, ISBN: 1583333428
Ph.D. Janis Abrahms Spring, Michael Spring
Life with Pop: Lessons on Caring for an Aging Parent From a bestselling author and clinical psychologist comes a refreshingly honest and tender portrait of a devoted daughter shepherding her father through his final years of life in a book that brings the deepening relationship to life—both the joy and the imposition, the happiness and the heartache and the guilt of trying to balance her father’s growing needs against her own. Weaving together her personal story with the confessions of her patients —Janis arrives at profound lessons.
19 used and new from $0.97, Paperback, Silverleaf Press, ISBN: 1933317426
Robert Stahmann, Nathan Wood
25 Keys to a Great Marriage
This collection of information culled from years of counseling experience highlights 25 tactics for avoiding unhappiness and divorce and for fostering the need to develop physical and emotional intimacy. This practical and user-friendly approach reveals the complex and sensitive bonds of marriage.
189 used and new from $0.07, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787939838
Scott M. Stanley, Daniel Trathen, Savanna McCain, Milt Bryan
A Lasting Promise: A Christian Guide to Fighting for Your Marriage Finally, the integrated Christian version of the best selling Fighting for Your Marriage-- a powerful and practical guide for building communication, commitment, friendship, and spiritual connection in a marriage of lasting love.
80 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Jossey-Bass, ISBN: 0787979287
Scott Stanley
The Power of Commitment: A Guide to Active, Lifelong Love A five-step plan—based on groundbreaking research and a uniquely spiritual approach— helps couples understand commitment and includes learning to move through the pain of unfulfilled dreams and hopes, overcoming attraction to others, transforming thinking from "me versus you" to "we" and "us," and capturing the beauty of lifelong devotion, loyalty, teamwork, and building a lasting vision for the future.
30 used and new from $3.69, Paperback, RCN Press, ISBN: 0975500554
David Steele
Conscious Dating: Finding The Love of Your Life in Today's World Real-world, practical, effective, comprehensive, do-able advice and information for singles from the founder of Relationship Coaching Institute. Engaging and fun to read, shows singles how to make better relationship choices and teaches specific skills to "find the love of your life and the life that you love."
20 used and new from $0.97, Paperback, Counselor Press, ISBN: 0974676500
Carol and Malcolm Stephens
Knowing Me, Knowing You: A Multiple-Choice Quiz for Engaged Couples This innovative his-and-her two-book set can help couples build a great foundation for marriage. By thoroughly knowing each other - beliefs, pet peeves, and expectations - a couple can discover areas of potential conflict and discuss issues proactively before they get married. Covering topics from faith to family to finances, the books are also a great tool for marriage professionals and educators.
83 used and new from $2.99, Hardcover, Free Press, ISBN: 0743284690
Steven Stosny
You Don't Have to Take it Anymore: Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Emotionally Abusive Relationship into a Compassionate, Loving One "This book is revolutionary, compassionate, clear, practical and generous. Revolutionary and compassionate in that it will change forever the way we understand emotional abuse and the heart of the abuser. Clear and practical in that it gives easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidelines for recovery. Generous in that it's all there -- the whole approach. Nothing else to buy. I highly recommend it to couples and to anyone working with couples." - Diane Sollee
61 used and new from $8.06, Hardcover, Random House, ISBN: 0385343949
Paula Szuchman, Jenny Anderson
Spousonomics: Using Economics to Master Love, Marriage, and Dirty Dishes A clear-eyed, rational route to demystifying disagreements and improving relationships by thinking like an economist and focusing on resource allocation. How do we—as partners in a society, a business, or a marriage—spend our limited time, money, and energy? How do we allocate these resources most efficiently? Classic economic concepts – loss averersion, cost-benefit analysis, incentives, supply and demand – are creatively applied to the domestic front: to sex, disagreements, decision making, being "too busy", in-laws, etc.
57 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Fortress Press, ISBN: 0800627121
Charles W. Taylor
Premarital Guidance (Creative Pastoral Care and Counseling) A practical manual for clergy, premarital counselors, wedding committees and lay marriage mentors that integrates the skill training tradition of premarital counseling with the teaching of Christian understandings and the design of the wedding service.
40 used and new from $10.25, Paperback, Augsburg Fortress Publishers, ISBN: 0800625099
Charles Taylor
The Skilled Pastor: Counseling As the Practice of Theology A creative and practical training manual for pastoral care volunteers, lay marriage mentors and clergy. It provides a full introduction of listening and problem solving skills with ecumenical Christian beliefs, and the use of religious resources for pastoral guidance in various situations.
51 used and new from $0.40, Paperback, Boston Univ Art Gallery, ISBN: 0872700798
Loving Well Project School of Education Boston University
The Art of Loving Well: A Character Education Curriculum for Todays Teenagers This collection of 41 short stories, essays, and poems provides literary models and practice for real life experiences. Designed for teenagers, activities build skills needed in healthy friendships, families, romances, and marriages.
1 new from $12.95, Paperback, Dialog Press, ISBN: 0936390204
Peggy Vaughan
Help for Therapists (and their Clients) in dealing with affairs This book reports the results of a Survey on Extramarital Affairs with 1,083 participants whose spouses had affairs. Each answered 35 questions including: "How could therapists be more effective in dealing with affairs?" From the many comments offered, 12 points of "Advice to Therapists" are included, along with the direct quotes from respondents. The information is useful not only for therapists to more effectively dealing with this issue--but also to help those who are struggling to recover from a spouse's affair.
6 used from $2.88, Unknown Binding, Dialog Press, ISBN: 0936390131
Peggy Vaughan
A sensible guide for sustaining a loving relationship (avoiding the superficial "tips and gimmicks" as well as the rigid "techniques" of most self-help books); also great for newlyweds.
35 used and new from $4.48, Paperback, William Morrow Paperbacks, ISBN: 1557045429
Peggy Vaughan
The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition For more than 14 years, heralded as one of the most valuable survival and recovery guides for men or women experiencing a partner's unfaithfulness. Using case studies, research, and her own experience, Peggy helps us understand the stages of suspicion, confrontation, and the healing process necessary to recovery. Includes her proven six-step program for establishing communication between partners that can actually prevent affairs and updated references (Monica Lewinsky, internet effects on relationships, etc.).
39 used and new from $6.75, Paperback, William Morrow Paperbacks, ISBN: 1557048517
Peggy Vaughan
To Have and to Hold: A Personal Handbook for Building a Strong Marriage and Preventing Affairs
From the author of The Monogamy Myth, this essential guide written specifically for married couples to strengthen their relationship and prevent affairs, challenges the assumption that monogamy can be taken for granted, explains the need to focus on preventing affairs before there is any threat to a marriage. Vaughan details specific strategies and techniques. Two appendices present Vaughan's survey questionnaire along with detailed breakdowns of responses.
Ring-bound, Dialog Press, ISBN: 0936390026
Peggy Vaughan & James Vaughan
This 106-page workbook allows each person to clarify their own priorities and to learn a practical process for managing (and balancing) their life on an ongoing basis.
96 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, Routledge, ISBN: 0876306490
Emily & John Visher
How To Win As A Stepfamily A best-selling clearly-written, optimistic handbook for prospective and current stepfamilies providing solid information, practical suggestions and comforting support. Relationships old and new are explored with telling examples and sensible advice.
43 used and new from $0.97, Hardcover, Doubleday, ISBN: 0385500858
Linda Waite, Maggie Gallagher
The Case for Marriage: Why Married People are Happier, Healthier, and Better off Financially Recipient of the 2001 Smart Marriages Impact Award - click for Case for Marriage articles and to take QUIZ
"In this cynical, high-divorce society, this important book is a MUST read." - John Gottman
"The bible for every 'smart' marriage educator." - Diane Sollee

18 used and new from $2.80, Hardcover, Lexington Books, ISBN: 0739121782
James Walter
Reading Marriage in the American Romance: Remembering Love as Destiny Walter studies marriage in Hawthorne's The House of the Seven Gables, James' The Beast in the Jungle, Morrison's Beloved, Percy's The Thanatos Syndrome, and Frazier's Cold Mountain. By proposing the image of marriage as an aesthetic principle in literature, Walter is making us aware that the forms of our lives are deeply embedded in and yet shaped by the narratives that are among our guiltiest and most profound pleasures."—Robert Dupree, from the foreword
32 used and new from $1.82, Hardcover, Simon & Schuster, ISBN: 0684873540
Michele Weiner-Davis
Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage Practical and empowering. A 7-step program anyone can follow to revitalize even the most damaged marriage. Solution-oriented strategies for saving your marriage, coping with infidelity, internet obsessions, depression, sexual problems, midlife crises, etc. This program is effective even if your spouse has one foot out the door.
550 used and new from $0.01, Paperback, A Fireside Book, ISBN: 0671797255
Michele Weiner-Davis
Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again This best-selling book offers hope to everyone, even those teetering on the edge of divorce. Easy-to-understand, inspirational in tone, DB is the classic relationship instruction manual.
56 used and new from $2.75, Paperback, Golden Guides from St. Martin's Press, ISBN: 158238035X
Michele Weiner-Davis
Getting Through to the Man You Love: The No-Nonsense, No-Nagging Guide for Women Two thirds of all divorces are filed for by women who convince themselves that their marriages will never change, no matter what they do. This book teaches women down-to-earth, effective methods for getting through to the men they love.
39 used and new from $6.38, Hardcover, Simon & Schuster, ISBN: 0743227328
Michele Weiner-Davis
The Sex-Starved Marriage: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido When one spouse is dissatisfied and the other unwilling to consider their partner's feelings, sex isn't the only casualty - intimacy on every level simply ceases - making infidelity or divorce a real threat. This straight-shooting book outlines a plan to help both partners behave in ways that makes true intimacy a real possibility. A must read for couples struggling with a desire gap or who believe the myth that desire is something that should "just happen".
82 used and new from $0.01, Hardcover, Broadway, ISBN: 076790639X
Barbara Dafoe Whitehead
Why There Are No Good Men Left: The Romantic Plight of the New Single Woman A hard-hitting, groundbreaking, research-based exploration of the new mating conditions that are changing the face of love, commitment, and marriage as we know it. A double revolution is at work in modern American love: A revolution in higher education has created the most professionally accomplished and independent generation of young women in history, and a revolution in mating has created a prolonged and perplexing search for Mr. Right.
30 used and new from $8.82, Paperback, Cambridge University Press, ISBN: 0521616603
Nicholas Wolfinger
Understanding the Divorce Cycle: The Children of Divorce in their Own Marriages Growing up in a divorced family can cause children to have difficulties in maintaining relationships. The divorce cycle phenomena ensures the transmission of divorce from one generation to the next. Compared to those from intact families, children of divorce are more likely to marry as teenagers; less likely to wed overall; more likely to marry others from divorced families; more likely to dissolve second and third marriages; and less likely to marry their live-in partners.