This divorce intervention process offers hope to couples who are thinking of separating in their marriage. Controlled Separation® offers clear Guidelines and a Contract for couples who want to restore sanity to their relationship and determine what their next steps are.  Couples who use this process slow down, cool down and regroup with a greater possibility to restore the marriage to a healthier state. Consideration of the children is a primary focus. Available in TOOB format. Based on Should I Stay or Go? by Lee Raffel, MSW.