Active Relationships (AR) Marriage Education Accelerated Training
Kelly Simpson, MA

This training equips & immediately certifies you to teach five programs.

The five programs for which you will be immediately certified are: Active Choices
(8-hour program for engaged and dating couples!)

“Active Marriage”, “Active Communication”, two Military programs, “Military Life and Resiliency Skills”
(for single or married troops), “Active Relationships
for Young Adult’s" (ARYA) and “Active Adults” for parents and singles.

The three additional Active Relationships “Mastery Series” programs for which you will
be able to become certified (through further study) are: Active Money Personalities
(including the new Money: Marriage Assessment Tool), Active Romance, and
Active Living (Traditions)
. You will be provided the study-DVD’s as part of your institute
materials at no extra charge.


This institute will cover practical elements of the five programs (in which you will receive
immediate certification) and partial elements of the three Active Relationships programs
from the “Mastery Series” (in which you are eligible to complete certification through further study).

Provided as part of your institute “materials package,” are leader-materials for all six programs,
plus “out of the box” (participant texts and DVD training sets) for the three additional Mastery
Series programs.

Note: The three “Mastery Series certifications,” requiring further study are optional. You may
complete at your convenience, certification in any or all three additional programs. Participants
who complete the institute and certification steps for the three additional programs are also eligible
for certification to lead Christian and Spanish editions of those Mastery Series programs.

Background:
Kelly Simpson has developed the curricula from first-hand experience leading marriage education
courses since 1997. The Active Relationships programs are widely utilized in military settings,
in federally funded healthy marriage education sites and in faith-based arenas.

Overview:
The institute will include the most important theories, teachings and techniques including:
avoiding faulty assumptions, anger management, clear communication, conflict resolution,
avoiding money power struggles, biology of love and romance, managing different desire
levels, daily routines, and traditions for lasting connections. We'll will cover elements of
the 8-hour “Active Marriage” program for communication and conflict resolution skills and
“Active Communication.” We wil also include important elements of military, single adults
and youth programs and elements of the Money, Romance and the Tradition programs.

Content:
8-hour Active Marriage program
Active Communication
Military program elements
Youth – “ARYA” and Single Adult “Active Adults” program elements
Money
Traditions
Romance
Additional Military components

Tools and lectures include:
Speaking and Listening Techniques
Assuming Goodwill versus Faulty Assumptions
Mapping Emotional Triggers
Anger Management Techniques
Defining Destructive Behavior
Conflict Resolution Rules and Practice
Program Formats, Agendas and specific program “how to’s”
Assessing Money Personalities
Administration/use of the NEW Money M.A.T. (Money- Marriage Assessment Tool) Avoiding Financial Power Struggles and Financial Responsibility
Traditions and Rituals to Build Strong Families
Romance & Intimacy assessments
Program Formats, Agendas and specific program “how to’s”

What you will receive:
You will receive participant texts and applicable leaders’ materials for the six programs in which you will receive immediate certification:

• Active Marriage-Workbook and Leader’s Materials,
• Active Communication – Workbook and Leader’s Materials
• Active Military Life Skills, Workbook and Leader’s Materials
• Active Military Reunions, Workbook
• Active Relationships for Young Adults, Workbook and Leader’s Materials
• Active Adults. Workbook

You will also receive (for optional additional certification) materials to study (DVD’s and participant texts) for three Mastery Series programs:

• Active Money – DVD’s and participant text
• Active Romance –DVD’s and participant text
• Active Living – DVD’s and participant text

Total value of institute materials exceeds $1,000.

About Kelly Simpson:
Kelly Simpson, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, is director of the Active Relationships Center in Dallas, Texas a 2006 federal HMI award recipient. Recent military work has included trainings for the Army, National Guard and for Air Force Europe. Simpson also works as technical consultant for HIAS, a national refugee organization assisting refugee agencies in establishing healthy marriage programming and implementation. She is nationally recognized for her work with couples to
promote marriage education ranging from communication and resolution, to romance, sensuality and sexuality. Simpson is also the founder of the FAR Foundation, an incubator for the Alliance for North Texas Healthy Effective Marriages (ANTHEM), a 2005 CCF grantee and a 2006 Healthy Marriage grantee. A lifetime certified teacher of the deaf, Simpson has blended the best of the best relationships skills for marriage education for youth. She has authored numerous articles and has been featured in national media including NBC Nightly News, FOX, CBS, Wall Street Journal, Dallas Business Journal, Dallas Morning News, and Psychology Today. A frequent lecturer, Simpson has been an author and faculty member of the State Bar of Texas Advanced Family Law Seminar. She conducts international professional trainings for mental health professionals, agencies, military personnel, clergy and lay leaders as well as Active Relationships classes for couples and youth.

Active Relationships Instructor Certification
Upon completion of the institute, participants will receive immediate certification for six Active Relationships programs: Active Marriage (the 8-hour program), “Active Communication” two Military programs, “Military Life Skills” (for single or married troops) and “Military Reunions”, a youth program “Active Relationships for Young Adults, and “Active Adults” for singles.

Further certification in three Mastery Series Courses (Active Money Personalities, Active Romance and Intimacy and Active Living) is optional and will require additional study beyond the institute. To be certified in these additional programs, institute participants must view (in entirety) the program’s training DVD’s, (DVD’s are also included in institute materials). Participants must also complete and submit an assessment (regarding the viewing of the DVD’s) to ARC. After ARC reviews the assessment, certification will be conferred. Certifications in any or all of the three Mastery Series programs may be obtained.

Train the Trainer Track- (to train other professionals):
Train the Trainer tracks are available for qualified applicants. See website or call ARC for details for becoming a trainer for Active Relationships. 877.724.7789
or email to Ksimpson@ActiveRelationships.com

Attending with your Spouse:
Spouse discount: $150 off for spouse when taking the institute together and sharing one set of materials. For more information see www.ActiveRelationships.com or call (1-877-724-7789).

Evaluation comments from past attendees at the Smart Marriages Active Relationships Accelerated Training Institutes:

“The best that I have seen in the manner the program was written and organized.”

Materials Provided: “Huge. A veritable encyclopedia.”

“The best training I have received yet! Presented in a way that makes it so logical and understandable. Participants will be lucky to have seen such work.”

“A program that addresses multicultural needs across the board.”

“Thank you for the most comprehensive, non-threatening, helpful program. Active Relationships is more than a program.”
Rating: 5++ out of 5

“This program exceeded my expectations. It’s great and I am excited about putting it into practice. I will definitely recommend this to others in my [military] facility.”

“The best of all the marriage education programs rolled up in one program for the military.”

“A wonderful way to open people’s eyes to see the needs, as well as the gifts of the most important person in their life. Then to use their new (clear) vision to make a plan for their future.” Materials: “Wonderfully abundant” Presenter’s Knowledge: Great.”

“Rating: I give this one a 10 on a 5-point scale!”

“This program is perfect for my needs as a Head Start Parent Involvement Coordinator. I love the way that it is designed and structured. It is easy to follow and use.”

“Thank you very much for our binders, wisdom and support. Hispanic community really needs to be helped and it’s going to be a fact thanks to you.”

“Very user friendly and written for all couples. The type of program that young, old, rich, poor, black or white can use to better their relationships. Wonderful presentation, best resources of any seminar, presenter’s knowledge excellent. Very enlightening.”

Presentation Style: “Flexible” Materials provided: “Great. It’s good to be trained by the author. Looking for the next opportunity to recommend this training. Very applicable/useful.”

“This workshop is the best choice for professional counselors, social workers etc, because it combines best practices and also includes very unique sections (e.g. money as a family affair or family education.” Presentation: “Excellent, energetic presentation” Materials: “Very well organized; clear”

“Am packed with information, group exercises and fun!”

For additional information on Active Relationships programs,
or to view leader materials visit: www.ActiveRelationships.com


This institute is part of the week-long Smart Marriages conference.

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